I'm so sick of his stubbornness

Any time we get into an argument, either we don't talk for a bit or we do and it ends still kind of heated... No matter what though, I feel like I am the one that usually comes around, right or wrong, to either say sorry or I'm upset with you still but want to move on from this or just hug him and say I hate fighting... He is always receptive to that but WHY can he never be the one to first break that silence or anger? Why does he always have to carry the anger or be stubborn like that? I told him, many times these arguments are little or don't mean much and really are a result of one of us (or both) being tired or sick. Today he was sick and we were both tired :mad: and stupid little arguments all day...I finally told him just now, why can't you ever first come to me and just hug me? Or just come hug me and say lets move on, why can't he see the forest through the trees? He said I'm right, he has to learn to let it go etc. In the meanwhile I am so frustrated. I don't want to waste time in my life being angry, not having fun, showing my kids that this is what life is like, but instead want to have more fun, be more silly, etc. I'm trying to let it go a bit because I know he's sick and not feeling well but it's hard. Its not like my feelings shut down because you are sick. I'm also pregnant and probably more emotional now than normal which I'm sure doesn't help. Advice please?

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