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Unprotected sex first time

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Hi so I had unprotected sex (first time having sex at all) and he was in me for about 10 minutes but he didn't come, is there a risk of pregnancy?
My fertility window is open and he came before we had sex at all
He didn't come after we had sex either
Any advice on what to do next? Thanks

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Finding your footing .... alone

Since my separation, I have had a hard time finding my footing as a single woman. Over the 20 years that ex and I were a couple, we entertained a lot. BBQs, football games, holiday parties, summer swims, etc. I truly miss those gatherings.

I stopped doing a lot of these since I was having a difficult time dealing with the divorce and also the $ expense of hosting. My daughter always has sleepovers and I have had a few friends over for dinner, but mostly I just meet friends out or at their homes.

Last night I was not looking forward to another night alone. Although my daughter was home, she normally hangs in her room (typical teenage girl). I called my neighbor who recently got a divorce and asked her to stop by for a drink with the kids. I also invited my married neighbors and kids to come by if they wanted. Happy to report we had a ball. 9 kids in the pool, one infant and 5 adults just talking - enjoying some wine and fruit/cheese. Very relaxing and easy.

I will try to do more of these impromptu parties in the future. It has been out of my comfort zone to entertain as a non-couple. I am always a bit nervous when couples come since I do not have a plus one and am hoping the guys are not bored.
Last night was fun.

Has it been hard for other people to entertain or be around couple friends without a plus one?

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People found out about my realtionships with older women

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I have been off from uni since May, my new accommodation in the uni town isn't available until September so I've been staying with my mum in my hometown for the summer.

I get a long with girls more than I do guys so ll my friends at the uni town is girls and back home just a couple of male friends. I went from having loads of sex to none so I gagging for some action, so I decided to join a online dating app.

On this app I've had a few older women messaging me, I've meet up with a few who just wanted sex, become friends as well because we get along.

One I met became a great friend, she is 37 and me being 24 we had sex, never been with older women before so been a great experience for me she taught a lot of new things. I wanted to keep it a secret but a photo leaked onto facebook of me laying in her bed next to her so I couldn't hide it. I told my friends back in the uni accommodation.

The only people that don't know is my parents? should I be honest what I been up to? She said see wants to visit me at my student accommodation, I don't know how that is going to go down but by funny if people think she is my mum then they hear things.

Another thing I am concerned about will this harm my relationships with girls my own age? As I said most of my friends are female so I am worried what they would think. Am I taking things too far?

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I did something awkward. Getting over it

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At my temp job basically there's a carrier bag box that's rectangle shape and I was asked by the manager to out by the wall. The space was small. I had a blonde moment and tried putting the box which didn't fit and called the manager over. She said put it longways. I still didn't get it stupid me. :o then she came and put it in for me . Lol I felt like such an idiot afterwards although she didn't say anything. How do I get over it. Feel like a big thicko :eek:

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Is this socially acceptable?

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Before I start I'll say that I get self-conscious easily.
I'm really into a guy that's nearly three years younger than me. I hope it works out because he's really made me fall in love. Mainly his personality. My question is, Is it seen as socially acceptable for a guy to be over two years younger in a relationship? I mean a proper intimate relationship leading to marriage. Even if people say no, it won't change anything, but I want to know about if other people, especially other girls will see it as socially unacceptable to see another girl getting married to a guy that's nearly three years younger than her.

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How common are same sex relationships at University?

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Hi everyone,

Just wondered, since people say that Uni is a much more open place than Sixth Form/College. A lot of gay/lesbian people 'come out' at Uni as it's a much more accepting place etc.

So I was wondering, since it's a much more open place than Sixth Form/Secondary School/College, how common are same sex relationships at Uni? Of course, I know it's not going to be common in the sense that every other couple you see holding hands are a same sex couple, but would you say there are more or less gay/lesbian relationships than you expected at Uni?

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Tounge in cheek in body language terms.

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What does it mean in body language terms when someone presses there tongue against there cheek?
a woman caught me looking at her :o, she smiled and walked away smiling with her tongue pressed against her cheek.

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Caught close friend reading my private messages ( FB )

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I have a close male friend whom Im on placement with until the end of next week. I was out of the room for about 10 minutes completing a task and then came back in to find him sat at my laptop looking through my facebook messages. when heard me come in he quickly changed to another tab. he also had my history up on screen too....
Earlier this week he told me off for still being in contact with my exes;

what the heck is going on?

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How do people find the time to cheat?

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I don't understand how people find the time to cheat, shouldn't their partner be on their mind most for the time?

How can some people cheat and NOT feel bad? It's like they never cared for their partner.

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Guys , would you marry a girl who's had sex with over 20 guys?

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I certainly wouldn't lol. Adding a poll. And some related stats .

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Women who cohabit prior to marriage or who have premarital sex have an increased likelihood of marital disruption. Considering the joint effects of premarital cohabitation and premarital sex, as well as histories of premarital relationships, extends previous research. The most salient finding from this analysis is that women whose intimate premarital relationships are limited to their husbands—either premarital sex alone or premarital cohabitation—do not experience an increased risk of divorce. It is only women who have more than one intimate premarital relationship who have an elevated risk of marital disruption. This effect is strongest for women who have multiple premarital coresidental unions
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Does your mum/dad /family know you're in a relationship?

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Just out of curiosity , People in relationships! Do your family members know you are in a relationship and have they met your boyfriend/girlfriend?

I'm 18 ,single (never been in a relationship) and have been thinking about relationships lately .The thought of introducing my parents to a boyfriend:eek:.In their ideal world I'll live at home ,stay single until I'm 25

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Isn't it rude to rate people?

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I see people saying "He's 4/10" or things like that. Isn't it rude to rate people? It's rude to insult other people...

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what first attracted you to your bf/gf?

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Code:

just out of interest

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Met this boy on holiday and can't stop thinking about him :-(

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Last week at the end of my holiday abroad with friends, I met this really nice guy, we got a bit drunk two nights in a row and hooked up both nights. His friend also got on well with one of my other friends. That was then the end of the holiday so we swapped numbers, snapchats etc. We live about 3 hours from each other and since we got back home we have texted once and SC a few times. Our conversations so far have been pretty flirty. Even though I barely know him I can't seem to stop thinking about him as if I like himand it's annoying because I'll probably never really see him again.. although him and his friend are planning to come visit us in August which I'm hoping will actually happen. I keep getting the urge to try and talk to him but I feel like I'll just look clingy etc, I keep doubting myself too that he'll want to and make more contact with me especially seeing as I don't know how exactly he feels about me. Any advice how to go about this lame situation? Do I just leave it and see if he talks to me or? Thanks :)

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Are guys with small hands and feet a turnoff for ladies??

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I'm a shorter than average guy at around 5'8 but it does get pointed out to me occasionally that I have rather small hands and feet. I did look up some measurements and I think I'm in the bottom 10th percentile for guys, my hands are far closer to the average womens hands than a mans! :eek:

I'm a size 7.5-8 in shoe as well. So not too small, but small enough that again, I'm going to be the same size or smaller than some women.

I know height is a big deal for the ladies but could things like the size of his hands and feet matter as well? Its to do with the whole protection thing and masculinity of males being bigger at the end of the day. Would a guy having small hands and feet be a turnoff to any of you girls?

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Girls, are you all easy on a night out?

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Are you all easy on a night out? drop your knickers for a drink and have one night stand in any guy interested in you to validate yourself?

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