Girlfriend freaking out

Hi everyone, i have another post on here about my GF and her depression problems. But i wanted to ask this: Long story short,,she recently got off her depression meds(Wellbutrin). She was taking for years.She tapered off about 2 months ago and is completely off..I still dont know why she needs to get off them if they work.She just says she hates taking medicine..Besides her acting different now,unhappy with herself,thinks shes fat,ugly,also less affectionate now and lost sex drive. She told me yesterday that when she was in shower, she kept looking out the shower curtain to see if someone was in bathroom,and when she went to bed she had to check under the bed like 10 times to make sure knowone was there!!! I told her babe u gotta get back on your meds like now..She said she is going to, but what would you call that behavior,just paranoia???She does suffer from anxiety with the depression.When she is on her meds she is soo much happier etc.

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Husbands Best Friend in love with him

A few months ago my husband's best friend told him that she was in love with him. She begged him to break up with me. He refused and then called me and told me what happened. We are now married(3 weeks now). He still want's to spend time with her kids. He has known them their entire lives and wants to keep in touch with them. The day after our wedding she sent him texts asking if he married me and if he really loved me. Today he announced that he was going to go and see the kids. I am not sure what to think about this. I feel wrong for asking him not to see the kids. But I also feel like him being anywhere near her is inappropriate.

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Being Rewarded?

We ll be 3 years from D Day this coming summer . WH still working hard on proving he s sorry , proving I can trust him etc

We re working on relationship/marriage etc .
I ve lost weight , take more care of myself etc . We have date nights and all seems good . . . .and yet

Sometimes I feel he s being rewarded . He strayed I allowed him to stay . He s got a better wife and sex life . Our marriage is getting better so sometimes I feel like by being unfaithful he s got what he wanted . Thought please from WS and BS ?

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Why is it OK for a woman in her mid-late 20's to go out with a teenage boy...

But it isnt ok for a guy in his mid late- 20s to go out with a teenage girl?

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What should I do about this girl?

This is quite a long story and I hope you read it fully.
I started university in October. I met a girl who was on my course. We shared the same classes etc. We started talked and became friends. I thought she was great. I then asked her if she had a boyfriend. She said she did. I was disappointed because I really liked her. I then dropped the topic and didn't talk my feelings to her.
Anyway, a few months went by and we became more closer friends. We talk almost everyday. Then I felt my feelings beginning to develop again for her. I tried very hard to ignore them but it was very hard for me.
Anyway, i started writing statuses on Facebook mainly about unrequited love quotes and things like that. They were directed at her. I knew she would read them. Every time I wrote one, she would message me and ask who did I write it for? Every time she asked, I would just dodge the question and never give a straight answer. I think she knew deep down it was about her but she kept asking.
Then she asked me if I love her. I said I don't know. I am 99% sure I was in love with her, but I didn't want to say it knowing she didn't feel the same.
Just a little bit of background info about her boyfriend. She lives in another country. They have been together for the last 3-4years. It's a long distance relationship you could say. She told her mum about him in September but her mum didn't like him and she told her to stop talking to him. She did stop talking to the guy, but then started talking again as she realised she really loves him. Obviously her family doesn't want she is talking to him now.
She has met the guy only once which was in September. The first time she met him, she was in her country, at a concert, and he came over and have her a piece of paper with his number on it. Anyway that's a bit of context for that.
Also her plan is to tell her family about him again in 2-3 years (when she finishes university). She believes she can convince them.
So, just yesterday, she told me a huge secret. We were at uni doing some work and she said she wanted to tell me something.
What she told me shocked me.
She said when her family disapproved of her boyfriend, she wanted to try and find somebody else. So she told her boyfriend that she wants a 'break'. In his mind, he thought she was ending things with him and that's what he thought happened. But in her mind, she wanted to try with someone else, and see if she could find someone else.
And that's what she did, kind of. There was a guy in our class. She liked him, and she got close to him. They would go to the park together and talk, hug, kiss on the cheek.
Then he kissed her. After she kiss, she was sad. He asked her why? She said that she has a boyfriend. He was quite shocked because why is she with him if she has a boyfriend? She didn't tell him that she was on a 'break' with her boyfriend. He said he didn't want to continue because he has been in a similar situation etc. After basically their little relationship (I wouldn't even call it that as it didn't even last a day) ended. She then realised, it was all a mistake and that she loves her boyfriend.
I think the fact that she is in a long distance relationship, she just wanted to try with another guy because she is missing the physical side of the relationship? That's my guess anyway.
Anyway so that ended and she is talking to her lover boy boyfriend again.
When she told me this, i was feeling:
Shocked, surprised, sad, hurt, heartbroken.
I know this may sound stupid or pathetic but I said to her:
U gave the guy a chance and he is a fool to let you go, etc.
U never gave me a chance to show u my feelings for u, how much I care about u, etc. I feel hurt.
She replied saying it was just a mistake, she doesn't want to talk about the last, she didn't love him etc.
I then said it's about the guy, it's about me.
Then she said u know I have a boyfriend, I love him very much. Etc.
That I shouldn't be selfish.
She said I'm sorry.
Anyway, then I said to her I don't want to ruin our friendship.
And then she said:
I think we can't be friends. I should delete her from Facebook.
Wow, I don't think I can explain how I was feeling at this point. It was like someone had ripped my heart out. I was devastated. I kept saying to her im sorry please don't do this, please forgive me, etc.
After numerous times of me apologising, she said that she is thinking of me, and that she doesn't want to see me sad
I said to her don't worry I won't be sad. I just want to be friends with u, I'm sorry etc.
Then she eventually she ok. She said don't talk about love etc. And that she loves her boyfriend very much.
I said yes ok I won't. Then I asked her are u angry with me? She said no, she is very sad.
I told her I had tears in my eyes when she said we can't be friends anymore. She said she also had tears in her eyes.
Wow I was really not happy that I made her feel like this. I care about her so much and i didn't want to see her like this.
Anyway, I messaged her saying:
I want to say something.
After what happened last night, it made me realise how much I value our friendship.
I was so close to destroying our friendship and that makes me very sad. Thank u for forgiving me and giving me another chance. I will never do anything to ruin our friendship. It's important to me. I don't want to see u sad. Ok? I will be always be ur friend.
She replied ok thank you.
Ok now we are talking again as normal.
I still have feelings for her, but I will never tell her about it again. I can live with being just friends with her.
I don't want to ruin our friendship. It means a lot to me.
So I just wanted some of your views on this.
I know some of you will say I am silly for still being friends with her. I know people say you can't be friends with someone you have feelings for but I think I can manage. It will be hard, but I truly believe I can do it. It will hurt, I will always love her no matter what but we are friends only.
We finish uni in 2 weeks and then I probably won't see her for 4-5 months. Which is a good thing but also a sad thing as I love to be with her. I will still talk to her on Facebook, whatsapp, etc.
Of course I will try to look for another girl. That will make things easier for me.
What do you guys make of my situation.

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Missing my ex's family?

Is this weird?

I wasn't even that close to them, but they were just really fun people to be around and I got on well with them all. And now the relationship's over and I don't see them any more, I just miss being a part of the family.

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dating someone - when is it exclusive?

If your dating someone who you don't know, after how many dates would you say you would only see each other?

I personally have only ever dated one person at a time. I've had my first date with this guy which went well and we kissed etc

I know that he is single (as he mentioned he has been single for the last year and a half), but how do I know if he is seeing other girls? And when is the best time to find out?

thanks

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Guys: Would you wear a strap on if asked?

Hello, If your girlfriend asked you to wear a strap on would you? If you would not then why?

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Girl advise?

So the only time I can get with a girl is at clubs, and a lot of the time I don't even talk to them, I just go up and dance with them or they come up to me and sometimes I will make a move. However this doesn't satisfy me at all as it is all alcohol induced and sometimes I don't even know their name. The only reason I do it is because I don't know where to meet girls in real life and even when I do see a girl I like I'm always too much of a pussy to talk to them.

My problem is that I want a relationship now, rather than just meaningless kissing and occasionally meaningless sex. The last time I had a girlfriend was when i was 16/17 but now I'm nearly 19 and I haven't even went on a date since. I think about this every day and it gets me down and it doesn't help when I'm back from uni and every member of my family asks me if I'm seeing any girls. I worry that I'll never get married and have kids and this is what I really want later in life.

I hardly talk to girls anymore and I definitely don't know how to talk to a girl in a way that leads towards a date. I'm also quite awkward around girls which doesn't help. I think i developed my awkwardness in secondary school so I already knew most of the girls and then could talk to any of them but I stopped being able to talk to random girls and when I do I always say awkward things by mistake. I guess that explains why I can only pull in clubs.

There is no real question here and this is kind of vague but I'm just looking for general advise :)

Thank you.

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Are you 100% over your first love?

They say your first love holds a special place in your heart, do you still feel a flicker for your first love?

Is that spark still there, despite you both moving on?

Is it possible to truely move on after your first real loving relationship?

Have you ever rekindled that old flame?

After 2 years of dating, flings, 'focusing on my career right now' and having girlfriends, Im still not over my first love, I still miss her and find it hard not to get feels.

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miscellaneous STBX won't take me off phone plan

I really want to upgrade and finally have a smartphone but the bill is in STBX name and Verizon said he has to "release my number" or the other option would be to change my number which I shouldn't have to do. I still am stuck living with him(waiting for trial date now).He didn't say he wouldn't do it but as usual is a procrastinator and is more than likely using this as a means to control me. I also want it just to have internet privacy and more so the super convenience of just having it. I just feel like I can't have anything separate from him other than work,its so frustrating!!!He really shouldn't care since I am paying most of the bills.I am seeing my lawyer this week and I'll ask anything can be done.

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Input into my marriage

Hi all,

I've been a lurker for quite some time, but only just posting. Here goes...

I don't think my marriage is in trouble, but I don't want to be in a situation where it falls apart.

My husband and I got together when I was 21 and he was 27 and have been together for 10 years and married for 7 1/2 years. As usual, the dating stage was all exciting. There were a few hiccups from the beginning though. Whenever we had a disagreement about something, it ended up that I was accused of not showing him that I loved him. I don't think that was the case. I gave up spending time with my friends to see him every day. That's right,he would come and see me after he got home from work and I got home from uni. I'm not complaining about that as my day wouldn't be complete without seeing him. One more thing that bugged me in the beginning of the relationship was that he quite often said 'she's really pretty' about other girls like mates' girlfriends etc to describe them before I met them. I'll be honest, I do have low self esteem/confidence. This existed slightly before the relationship and him commenting about those girls brought it out in me a lot more. I know it's ok t o say a person of the opposite sex is good looking, but people with low self esteem don't want to hear it too often. Anyways fast forward a couple of years and we're married.

Married life was fun. Initially I was missing my parents too much and so we'd go there after coming back from work everyday. Then, we used to rush home after work and cook together, shower together in the morning etc what typical married couples do and it was nice. We used to buy each other cards/gifts for special occasion and he used to buy me flowers for occasions and I loved that appreciation. 6 months into the marriage, I got pregnant with terrible morning sickness. It was really bad in the first couple of months, I could not eat at all, kept being sick and lost so much weight and obviously in that period we couldn't get physical. In that time, I saw in the YouTube history that someone had looked at some stuff that were inappropriate to me. Nothing full on like nudity but I wasn't pleased about it and when I asked him,he denied it completely. I decided to let it go, but it kind of pushed my self esteem further down. When I was about 5 months pregnant, we were standing at a bus stop outside a shop. I kept looking at my hubby to see if he would look at me or pay attention to me. He wasn't. All of a sudden, a lady inside a car talked to us. She said to him 'you've got a beautiful pricess standing right there and you're looking everywhere but her, you've got to keep the flame going'. I thought that was so sweet of her to say that! And it kind of stuck with me. My husband is very caring and kind, but I've always felt that he doesn't pay me enough attention. If you ask him, he would say the same about me. It's unfortunate that we both have low self esteem and crave that attention from each other. Thinking about it now, I guess I should give him more attention as well.

When baby 1 is born, it was all about the baby, no time for hubby. Within a couple of months came one episode of 'you don't show me that you love me'. Wish husbands would be a little more understanding when the wife has a baby. Anyways, I organised a romantic meal for us at home to try and make him feel better. After marriage, whenever I wanted to and did go and stay over at my mums for a few days, there was always the argument from the hubby, making me feel guilty every time. That didn't stop me though, it was only like 2 days every so often. He was quite possessive then and I must say, I was very disappointed with him for behaving like that. Likewise, I was funny about him going out with his mates (they get up to no good anyway!) and he hardly went out. Both of us were wrong for trying to control the other person. We've changed now in that sense for the better.

A year after my child was born, I got pregnant with twins. Having 3 babies under the age of two meant it was extremely hectic for me. I would say after the first year of marriage, all the special day cards/flowers stopped (birthdays excepted but no flowers) Whenever it was a special occasion, I would go downstairs hoping to find a bunch of flowers like the beginning days, only to be deeply saddened. I never show my disappointment but I definitely feel it especially when I see other men spoiling their ladies. As for conversations, we don't talk as much as I want us to. I wants to be able to talk freely about anything and everything but I don't feel that we do. We probably get physical once or twice a week and I'm sure that's not enough for him but I'm too knackered at night and it's impossible during the day. Going on that point, about a year ago, when I went to bed earlier,he would stay up late at night. I found out that he was watching those tv programs about sex, not porn, programs like guide to sex etc. it must have been about 5 times. I was broken. Even in between those days, we were doing it and he went on to watch it the following day (it may not be classified as porn, but showing two people having sex is porn in my opinion) I didn't let on that I knew and one day, I was downstairs crying after he went up to bed. He came down and I told him I knew. He was in tears too and promised me that he just watched it to learn more as he felt that I wasn't more interested in making love. I decided to let that go but it definitely didn't do my esteem any favours. It's made me question how much trust I have in him. I may forgive, but I don't forget. He's forgotten about that incident! Now myself and the children are in another country while he finishes off stuff in the country we were at before he joins us here. Yes it did cross my mind, what might he be watching over there? I know 100% my hubby would never ever cheat on me with another person. But I a m so dead against porn/nudity etc. if I ever find out that he watched porn, it would kill me.

I have to mention that my husband has a go at me quite a lot to the extent that even my 6 years old comments that daddy shouts at mummy a lot. It's about little things. He once said to me that I come across as thick sometimes. (P.s I was in a professional field but stopped working when my first child was born, plan to work after my youngest two start full time school) he sometimes says to me 'what do you do right?' I've heard so many negative comments from him that far outweighs any positive comments he may make. Once after an argument, he told me he didn't want to be with me (he may have had a hangover then) that hurt when he said it, but I knew he didn't mean it. We hugged each other after that butt there was no official sorry or anything. But it did make me think what if he means it next time. My husband is not abad person, not at all. He hates cruelty, donates blood, very helpful to everyone and is a nice guy in general, so please don't make assumptions and say anything bad about him because that would hurt me.

One thing I really struggle to understand is when I ask him what he loves about me (I really want to know as I feel like a crappy wife), he can't answer me. He just says 'you know I love you, I love you more than you love me, I know that for a fact'. It saddens me. I don't know what he loves about me.


Your input or advice would be much appreciated. I want everything to be positive. I want to feel appreciated. I don't ever want for our marriage to break down. Right now, there aren't really any problems but things could be better

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Alone on my birthday. Again.

It's my birthday today (i'm 23) and once again, i'm doing nothing. This is my 4th birthday since I moved out and I have spent every single one of them alone, including my 21st.

I do have friends and nearly all of them have texted me saying happy birthday, which is something I guess, but I have no plans at all. Everyone else I know does something for their birthday whereas i've just sat in my room all day. Even on Facebook, everyone else I know has their wall flooded with birthday messages all day whereas i've had about 10. Haven't heard anything from my family either.

I accept that at my age i'm not going to get birthday presents, but I haven't even got a card. I always try to be nice to people and I like to think i'm a good friend, but every time I have a birthday it always makes me feel like **** and believe that deep down, nobody cares about me.

:(

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UCLAN Acting

Hello!
I will be moving up from the south to Preston in September to start my BA Acting course at UCLAN and was wondering if anyone on here is also joining to? Will be good to get to know some people before the course starts:)
Thanks!

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Should I just leave it?

So, I've been on a few dates with this girl who I actually really quite like. Most of our contact is over text/facebook etc because she's on placement. Everything seemed to be going well up until last weekend, she said she was back in our uni town and I asked if she wanted to meet up and do something and got no reply. Text her a few days later, just asking how she was and, again, got no reply. Got a text from her last night, asking me if I was out, which I wasn't. Text her this morning asking how her night was, still haven't got a reply and I'm not really expecting one. I do quite like her, and she keeps liking my posts etc on Facebook, so I'm not sure whether I should just assume she's no longer interested and just not reply the next time she texts or to keep trying?

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I'm Indian and so is he

I've been seeing this guy for 1 year and 1 month to be precise and everything was going well until I told my parents about him. I'm 21 and he's 25 so no age issue. I met him in Uni and since then there has been a spark and we understand each other really well. When I told my parents about him they went against him as he is not from the UK but what's the problem in that, as long as he loves me and treats me well which he does then there is no problem. But, my parents don't see it this way. They've basically lied and cheated with me and him as they said to us wait for a year then we'll get you married off but they were saying that so we get our hopes up high but I recently found out nothing of that such my parents happily getting us married off was never going to happen. As much of a hurtful matter this is I'm not going to let it hurt me anymore. My parents know the guy and know his family but throughout each day all they've done is lied about him that he's not good and hat but I know him well enough now and I know from all my previous relationships he's somewhat very different in a good way. I don't know what I should do now. I can't convince them anymore as they've given me their last word on this matter it's us or him. If I choose him my parent's are gone for me and I'll never be able to see them again. People have said to me it's all lies after I'm married to this guy they'll soon come around which might be the case. I know one things for sure I want to be with this guy. As people might say it's for a visa it's for a stay in the UK how can it be when he's still got an awful amount of time to still be a student here.

Any helpful advice or thoughts would be appreciated

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Seventeen days to get over her

This thread is going to be a bit self-destructive because now I'm here in the editor, I really don't feel like shouting about how brilliant she is like I was thinking of doing. I've given myself until the end of the Easter holiday (the Tuesday after Easter Monday) to get over her, with absolutely no contact. I'd have given myself longer, or rather, not set myself an arbitrary time limit at all, but I see her in lessons so I've only really got these two-and-a-bit weeks.

I've deleted her number, Facebook, Plus etc. The only thing I can't bring myself to delete are our texts, so they're all still there with a number appearing instead of a name. I know I have to delete those too, and I'll probably get round to it soon.

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Being messed around ?

So i've been speaking to a guy for around a month, in the second week of talking to him he asked me out, then around 2 weeks later he dumps me and uses the excuse that he is going to university in 4 months time and won't be able to keep a relationship going with me, then 3 days after he dumps me i get a text out of no where telling me that he misses me, but does not want to get back together with me because he is confused on how he feels... he has been texting me on and off since.... is he messing me around ?

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Dealing with my wife's pain and frustration.

I want to start by saying that I am the one who cheated. I screwed up, big time. That's a massive understatement. I had an affair with a coworker. I have never blamed my wife for anything. This wasn't her fault. I am just an idiot who made some really stupid choices and I'd give anything to go back and not make those dumb choices.

Before I talk about what I need advice with, here's some facts / background:

1. My wife and I have been married roughly 3.5 years, we've been together nearly 7. We have a 5-year-old son.

2. I did not have any physical sexual contact (not even kissing) with this woman but there were some inappropriate messages exchanged (sexual talk, no pictures). I am just stating a fact, I am not trying to make it seem like things aren't as bad because we didn't sleep together.

3. The other woman and I both used the "L" word (love) a couple of times but I was -- and I am not -- in love with her.

4. I have cut off all contact with this other woman -- I even quit my job since she worked for the same company. I have zero desire to talk to her or see her again. Thinking about her makes me physically ill at this point because of what I've done and how much I have hurt my wife. I did at one point lie to my wife about cutting it off but she caught me in the lie one night when she took my phone while I was asleep and found messages. At that point was when I quit my job and cut off all communication.

I have to be honest, I didn't want to quit my job. I'd been working there for five years, worked my way up into a management position, and my wife and I were only a step above living check to check and we had no savings. When I brought that up, though, she told me that it meant that cared more about that stuff than her feelings, so I didn't have a choice. I quit my job.

The messages she found were pretty bad. She saw the "L" word being used, she saw sexual talk, and she also saw myself and the other woman mocking some of the things my wife had been doing since she found out (e.g. texting the other woman pretending to be me).

I'm not here to rag on my wife because I know that she has been in incredible pain for the last couple of months because of how much I have hurt her, but this is also new territory for me, too, and it is something that I will ensure I never have to go through again. The problem I am facing right now is that the level of frustration that I am feeling because of how she has been treating me throughout all of this is becoming unbearable.

I know that she is angry and hurt and I know that she is on an emotional roller coaster, but I do not know how to deal with how she she talks to me. She talks to me like I am lower than dirt and finds different ways to tell me that she doesn't care about or believe what I say anymore. She is constantly bombarding me with accusations, putting words in my mouth, twisting the words that come out of my mouth, taking things out of context, and jumping to wild conclusions about everything. I know that she is doing these things because of how much I have hurt her, but I don't know how to handle it.

Sometimes I feel like she would just be better off without me at this point because she is making me feel like I have done too much damage... but I can't bring that up because I'm told that I'm just trying to "save face" or be a "martyr" and get out of the relationship. That is not true at all! I don't want out of the marriage. I do want to be with her. I do love her. I am just feeling like I have gone too far and hurt her too much. I know it isn't my place to decide how much I have hurt her, but she is giving me very little hope that this is something that we will ever be able to recover from.

Any advice is appreciated. If you have more questions, please ask.

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Would you go out with someone bipolar?

Would you marry/date someone who has bipolar disorder? What is the bipolar is minor? Would you still stay with them?

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I'm really softly spoken and it's making me feel insecure. How can I change this?

I've always been softly spoken but in recent months, I have met 2 girls and they have both said I am so softly spoken. It's making me feel really insecure and I wish I wasn't like this. A man is supposed to be loud and confident, not mouse-like. But it's hard to change when I've been like this my entire life. What's the best way of changing?

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Staying with boyfriend over Easter

Me and my boyfriend met at Uni and the end of last term, and, having been together for about three months, decided that during the Easter holidays we'll visit each other at our parents' homes. Whilst I am genuinely looking forward to it, I'm also a little worried, namely because it'll be 4/5 solid days together at a time. I love spending time with him (we already spend a lot of time together now - most nights and a lot during the day) but am worried that we'll get sick or snappy with each other, especially because it'll be an unfamiliar environment for the other person. I'm also worried about things to do when he comes to stay with me, like what if he finds my area boring/dislikes my family etc. It also feels like a big step, and he feels nervous too, as a lot of people (including possibly our families) expect the person you meet at Uni to be the person you stay with for a long time, so both of us want to make a good impression!

I know I'm massively overthinking this, but I was just wondering if anyone has been through a similar thing and has any tips on how to make the visits enjoyable and fun :)

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What's the best prank to play on your best friend?

I want to play a prank on my friend but I don't want it to be offending or upsetting because she's a sensitive kind of person.

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Girls are Terrible Liars.

Here's a nice story for ya'll.

A girl and I were friends, and all of a sudden, she stopped talking to me, ignoring all my messages and calls. I, to my knowledge, had done nothing wrong. It had been about a week since we'd spoke, and I got a text from a random number saying "Hey x". I had deleted this girl's number because I didn't want the temptation of speaking to her again, because I knew she didn't want to speak to me, and I wanted to respect her decision, as much as it really hurt me to see a friendship end with someone I really cared about. I was genuinely really upset.

So anyway, I had deleted her number, and replied to the text asking who it was texting me, to which I got a reply of "Dick.". I then recognised the last few digits of the number, and asked if it was this girl, to no response, so I rang, to no response.

Anyway, a while later, I got a text saying "Sorry who is this? I have a missed call from you." Now, you can see why this surprised me. I knew it was her, and I thought she was just joking around with me, until the conversation continued. She then claimed she had no record of ever texting me, and claimed one of her friends must have stolen the phone and text a random number.

Here's where it gets funny. This person then claims to not know of the girl I'm mentioning, and says they are a guy, and claims they are hung very well. Then, I am told they have to go, because they are at a party.

I liked talking to this strange guy I had never met who had both simultaneously text me, but had no knowledge of who I was. Then, to prove I was right, I rang "him".

Unfortunately, it went straight to answer phone, so I couldn't speak to this guy. Funnily enough, the answering message was that of the girl I knew and had fallen out with, and even said her name in it. :rolleyes:

TL;DR, girls can't lie very well.

Oh, and she's on TSR, so she'll probably read this :teehee:

Funny thing is, I'm actually really hurt by all of this, because I really cared about her. I honestly don't know whether to laugh or cry.

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Lost and unsatisfied with 14 year marriage

Wife and daughter are out doing there thing while I sit here alone. Often I don't mind because I like more down time than they do but its too much and getting old.

I am no longer part of their lives for the most part even though we live together.

My wife is obviously not interested in me and I am not sure we are a good match. I prefer intellectual conversation and working toward long term goals.

She prefers lots of socializing and short term gratification.

I am to sure I want to bother investing any further in a failure.

I was hot for my wife and still am but she is not interested.

Complaints aren't attractive but I am ready to move out and will tell her so tonight when she gets home.

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Depressed Isolated And No Friends

Hi this is my first post but I'll jump right to it. I feel so alone and depressed at my uni. The first semester was amazing. I had girlfriend and people talked to me and i did well on my exams. Comes second semester my girlfriend ditches me and I realize all my 'friends' have made new friends. I have nobody to talk to now and I'm always isolated in my room because I'm depressed. I'm not the kind of guy drinks or goes to clubs, that's not my kind of thing, so it's hard to make friends outside of uni. The societies at my uni are ****ty. My flatmates are never here so I'm all alone with no hopes to make any new friends. I hate this feeling of isolation and depression, and now I've got two weeks of no uni for Easter break and I hate it because I've got no friends and nothing to do. Usually people are happy for a holiday but I'm not. There's no chance of me switching universities so I'm stuck here for four years.

( Side note: I came across the world to do a subject I have no interest in just to be able to be with my girlfriend who ditched me later on) and this adds to my depression.

What I'm trying to say is that I'm alone with no friends isolated and depressed and I've got nobody to talk to. I NEED someone to talk to before I go crazy.I feel confused and unhappy:(

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