confused about new crush

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confused about new crush

• 23 minutes ago 23m ago

I was at a party a few days ago and a guy I knew of ended up kissing me. We spent a few hours together talking. A day later he messaged me on facebook however as he left to go on holiday we'd only exchange a message or two a day, and he seems to be drunk for most of it too.

As for the conversations its brief and consists of some flirting, but he isn't particularly hinting whether he's interested or not. We said we would maybe go clubbing soon, but it wasn't a set plan. He hasn't asked for my number or to meet me either.

So my question is are the feelings mutual or was this just a drunken thing? I don't want to ask him to meet up and push myself out there too much but would agree to meet if he asked, I'm just not sure if he has that intention in mind. I'm thinking that perhaps maybe after he's back he may try to arrange something but is there any way I can subtly find out if he actually likes me? Any advice would be really helpful.

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Had sex with my mates gran, should I tell him?

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Had sex with my mates gran, should I tell him?

• 1 minute ago now

I think i did something terrible to my friend the worst thing I've done by far,

I went round his nans the other day to see if he is in when I got there I rang on the doorbell, his gran answered to tell me that he is with his girlfriend today, even though he told me to come around between 1pm to 4pm like we arranged.

His nan offered me a cuppa and I said yes, so I ended up sitting on the bench in the garden with her. His nan I imagine had been sunbathing because she was in a bikini with a summer type dressing gown half covering her, she has quite saggy boobs so I kept glancing at them.

She noticed this told me they were real jokily then the conversation turned weird because my friend was out with his girlfriend she asked if I was with anyone I said that I am single then she said I was a good looking guy, I thanked her and then she asked me to have sex...

in my head I was thinking.....:eek: OMG!!! WTF!!! I knew this so wrong but me being myself I said yes saying never been with a older woman before, hell she is attractive so I couldn't turn her down. We did it in her bedroom it didn't last long because I didn't want to get caught by my friend.

I went home and haven't spoken to my friend since and I'm worried she might of told him and if he doesn't should I tell him? I'm scared what might happen and what if we go round his together in the future. I really don't know what to do.

I'm posting on here mainly because i'm worried if I tell anyone the word will spread.

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My mum won't talk to me because she knows I'm gay. What do I do?

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My mum won't talk to me because she knows I'm gay. What do I do?

• 11 hours ago 11h ago

I've never had the best relationship with my mum because she's been a hardcore Christian for the last 8 years. I'm 16, atheist, just finished my AS levels in year 12 and I'm out to some friends. Yesterday she looked through my texts while I was I the shower (general snooping), and read some texts from a gay friend I was meeting up with yesterday afternoon. She put the phone back, then followed me in the afternoon and saw me kissing the guy.

She confronted me about it when I got home, calling me evil, disgusting, a faggot, etc, and I told her that I'm gay. She kicked me out of the house (and refuses to take my calls), so I've had to go and live with my dad who is much nicer and doesn't care about my sexuality. I don't live with him because he lives across the county and my school and friends are in the same city as where my mum lives. I don't know what to do; I know she's entitled to her own beliefs about what's right and wrong, but obviously this has really upset me. I'm having to get a long bus to school and to see friends now to travel across the county. She's going around all her Christian friends and other people like other mums at school, calling me a faggot, slut, whatever she can. I have a 'perfect' Christian sister at uni, whom apparently I can't compare to. What can I do in this situation? Thanks you.

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Ask me anything about.....relationships :E

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Ask me anything about.....relationships :E

• 16 hours ago 16h ago

Yooo Tsrians :cool:

Always wanted to make one of these ask me anything threads

so I'm making one now with a bit of a twist :perv:

Edit: potential ghost thread :K: :rofl:

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New experience with ex

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New experience with ex

• 7 hours ago 7h ago

Hey.

So my relationship history is pretty much, I've always dated quite shy girls, none of which had a really large circle of friends, they tended to keep themselves to themselves, etc. I, on the other hand, love to party, a lot!

I decided to try something new and at the end of 2013, I decided to date a girl similar to me, she loved to party, hang out with friends and such. Just over a month and a half ago, my ex and I called it quits on a 6 month, really complicated relationship (if you can even call it that). She was a complete douch to me and when I think about it, treated me awfully. She loved to make me jealous by constantly flirting with other boys in front of me, ditching me on dates to hang out with guy friends, phoning me up to tell me shes in a hotel room with a group of boys and shes alone, then putting the phone down on me. She's pretty much psycho and put me through hell. Another example, she pretty much hyped up this visit to my house, saying that we were going to have sex for the first time and how excited she was. She came over, we were getting on each other, things were heating up, then she stops gets up, tells me she enjoys teasing me and then goes home. Freak!

After the breakup, she would still text me every week saying that she still wanted to be "best friends", she has this crazy idea that one day in the future, we will see each other again and be together forever, indirecting me really spitefully on Twitter. And, the kept sending me weird inappropriate sexual snapchats. So, I took to blocking her off of EVERYTHING, as she was literally making it impossible to get over her.

I've been invited to a party that she is going to later this month. I would really like to go, but I've never ran into an ex at a party and I'm not sure how I would react if I saw her getting on other guys, dressed up all nicely and just seeing her in general. We haven't had a face to face conversation since the breakup. Any advice for dealing with seeing an ex at a party?

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girls....which type of guy are you attracted to?

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girls....which type of guy are you attracted to?

• 4 hours ago 4h ago

seeing as there is one about girls, lets make up one about guys.

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I'm a moody guy...

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I'm a moody guy...

• 5 hours ago 5h ago

Yea. I'm a moody guy. But i always try to be happy when i meet people. Its just that i don't have enough control over my emotions. Its not like i rage at people. I never hit anyone or call people names when i'm angry or when i'm feeling down. I just go silent and emotions ebb, rise and rustle inside of me. And that pretty much shows in my face and i give off a very aggressive vibe (siblings told me). I have learn't to accept myself for who i am.

Actually, in my university, there's this girl who steals glances at me. People usually don't talk to me at uni and i have very few acquaintances. So, a lot of my classmates sometimes just stare at me expressionless, because i always walk ALONE in class or in an exam hall. I know because i've seen this happen. But this girl has been stealing glances at me whenever she sees me. But i'm 100% sure a girl would never want a relationship with me.

My question is...

Would a girl stay with me? I mean, would a girl ever think of having a relationship with a guy like me? Will i be able to sustain a relationship with a girl? :(

P.S: I'm not trying to pity myself. I'll take any answer you give me as an advice. But please don't troll. Not today.

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I hate being a black girl.

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I hate being a black girl.

• 7 hours ago 7h ago

I live in the uk and you hardly ever see black girls being dated.
Black men go with white girls ( which is cool)
but no other races want black girls. Even the quiet black girls.
In school this guy (hes black) said something that really put me down.
'' Black girls are ALL ugly, i would never date them, white girls are beauties'' .

I WISH I COULD DRAIN ALL THE BLACK BLOOD OUT AND RIP THE BLACK SKIN OFF ME

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Would you pay for a hotel for your girlfriend if she needed a place to stay?

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Would you pay for a hotel for your girlfriend if she needed a place to stay?

• 15 hours ago 15h ago

Basically.....as the thread title states..

I have just recently paid for a hotel for my girlfriend over the next few days as she has nowhere to stay (she is away at her summer placement job) and basically something happened which meant she has nowhere to stop.

Her parents either wouldn't or couldn't help her out financially, therefore she was stuck. So I immediately rang her, of course I was naturally worried about heel and offered to pay for a place for her to stop.

At first she seemed reluctant...but I wasn't going to allow her to stay on streets.
I've paid a fair amount for her to stay somewhere, but she feels bad about it and awkward.

For some reason now I feel bad, because she does. Like she said she hates the feeling of having to pay people back. I reassured her it's my job to worry and to help heel but she is insistent and feels bad.

How can I stop her from feeling bad, or obliged to pay me back (in more ways than one) when she doesn't really need to. I don't want her to feel I expect anything.

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Is it "get an ex band together day"? .. what's happening?

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Is it "get an ex band together day"? .. what's happening?

• 15 hours ago 15h ago

It's been 10 months since the break up, and I would have thought my would have completely forgotten me by now ... But earlier this evening I randomly got a friend request from her close friend?

My ex and I haven't talked since the break up, which ended horribly ... she blocked me 5 months after the break up ... but why would her friend message me??

Am I just looking too much into this?

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Refused to walk with my GF coz of what she was wearing! Am I wrong?

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Refused to walk with my GF coz of what she was wearing! Am I wrong?

• 17 hours ago 17h ago

If your GF wears socks and slippers, would you refuse to walk outside with her?


I did. She went to the local shop on her own wearing socks and slippers, after I told her I'm not going if she's wearing that. It's not illegal to wear that, but it's just not socially acceptable - It's almost like wearing a bra outside a top!


After she went, I just felt like a horrible person. I know she doesn't have to wear what I like, but this wasn't anything like that. I wasn't saying "wear this dress and don't wear the other, coz I don't like it". It was a case of what's socially acceptable and what's (let's face it) practical (coz it was also very hot and sunny!)


Now I don't know how to make her understand and realise that I wasn't being a horrible person there and wasn't controlling what she should wear and what she shouldn't.


What should I do?

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What is worse Oral Sex or Vaginal Sex?

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What is worse Oral Sex or Vaginal Sex?

• 17 hours ago 17h ago

had a debate with someone. they think sucking dick isnt as bad as having sex with a guy. I think sucking dick is worse.

we both claimed our own social circles felt as we did.

so I was curious what you guys think.

thanks

P.S.

to clarify, by "worse" I mean ignominious

or to put it another way, if your girlfriend cheated on you which is worse if she sucked another guy off or if she had sex with him?

OR if a video of your mother ended up on the internet of her performing one of the above sex acts which would you be more ashamed of or embarrassed by? which would you think is worse?

also I've heard a few things over the years about people being from certain backgrounds or certain cities having certain reputations for things. Like people from Essex having a reputation of being "slags". so if you post your answer it'd be cool if you left some info about yourself just to see if there was any "trends" from people from certain cities of certain religions or ages etc...

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Morning wood with men over 50

Do men over 50 need direct stimulation (10 minutes or so) to achieve a morning erection? My H used to never need any assistance (during his 20's - 30's). Now that he's 50, it seems that he cannot become erect w/o my hands or mouth on him.
What's your experience guys? (men over 50)
Thanks guys. This is very awkward for me to ask:o.
If any of you can give me some insight or some personal advice I would appreciate it.

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Seeking advice, support & love online

Hello everyone, I am new here so go easy on me. I am after some advice and opinions please.

I have never sought help from online forums and the like, however my husband is obsessed with them, he is a member of an "anxiety" forum and pores out everything online there. He spends hours and hours on them and ignores me pretty much. He shares nothing at all with me and doesn't talk to me about anything deep except the daily routine. If I try and talk to him about anything he seems to just agree with me to end the conversation and go back to his forums.

His brother died recently and that was the first time in years he truly confided in me and talked to me. I felt so close to him at that point and for the 4 weeks it lasted it was the best. However he has now turned back to his forums again.

I ask him to do things with me, but its always forums first, then maybe if I am lucky he will say, "Well then lets go for a drive". We drive somewhere go for a walk, then its back home to the forums. I dont even feel like going on a drive anymore. I mean whats the use, maybe it makes him feel better or something.

Am I being selfish? IS this normal behavior, he seems to think it is?

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why are some pretty people unattractive?

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why are some pretty people unattractive?

• 1 Hour Ago 1 hour ago

Im a girl im not ugly people tell me im pretty iv been offered a couple of modeling contracts but its like guys never hit on me
i can be in a room with 15 guys and 1 girl at a party everyones drunk but still no interest in me
i get told im cute(in a puppy kind of way) by guys i talk too (or girls) and sexy by guys i walk past on the street

every girl i know can get guys so easily , i get on well with boys but i dont get hit on much, its really depressing and im horny all the time and jelous of other girls ,theres no one i like in particular but im not picky and tbh i dont have standards anymore , was walking down the street and i was thinking the only guys i wouldnt have had sex with were the ones who were really old !!!
what am i doing wrong?

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Worst Accents?

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Worst Accents?

• 1 Hour Ago 1 hour ago

Ok so seeing as there is a "Sexist Accents" topic (of which i've posted in), i thought i'd go the other way and create one for the worst accents or "Turn off Accents"

Me:

German
Russian
Typical American
Redneck American
Greek
Ukraine

As you can see most of them (for me at least) are mainly very punchy, sharp sometimes angry languages, i've always said that even if you're complimenting someone in German, it sounds like you're insulting them cos of the brutality of the words compared to those of Italian, French or Spanish

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Am I too tolerant? Please advise

I met my current husband 5 years back through dating site. We were is different countries and had online communication for 3 years before getting married 2 years back. He had alcohol problems right from he beginning, like being drunk even while talking with me over phone.
But the main problem is that he lied me about his previous marriage and a child he had from it until after 1 years of marriage. I got mad at him when I found out about this but still continued my relationship and came with him to US ( his country).
Then instead of being nice to me he started accusing me of having relationship with other men. When I go out with him he make me uncomfortable by saying that I look at men in inappropraite ways. This has made me so uncomfortable that I try my best to look at floor or at objects while walking.
His alcohol problem,this doubting nature had ignited me many time to leave him and I went to the dating site and accepted few proposal few years back though I never chatted or had any conversation with any men.
Now he came to know about this and is creating a havoc out of it though I am constantly telling him and he also knows that it was before we got married. I am pregnant with his child and throughout this pregnancy we are having fights, mostly because he comes home drunk and accuses me of cheating on him. I am not working and stay at home alone throughout the day.The reasons of accusing are like me talking out two glasses from the cabinet so I must have had someone at home with me. I have menstrual stains on my blanket so I must have invited some guy and drank wine with him and slept with him. Living with him is like walking on egg shells. I am scared of everything.........Can please anyone advice if this is normal?

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