Do you bitch about your friends?

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Do you bitch about your friends?

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• 21 hours ago 21h ago

Do you?

I have a problem and tend to bich about one friend to another and my best friend in particular knows ALL the negative things that have gone down with my friends and their hopeless love lives (which I only bitch about bc they're fantastic girls who for example will stay with abusive boyfriends etc). I just caught myself calling a friend a golddigger, hence her reason for dating her boyfriend (which she's told me in so many words and is obvious, but she doesn't actually realise)...I feel SO guilty and want to change. Is this normal?! Do you all do it too?

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We didn't use condoms - was this stupid?

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We didn't use condoms - was this stupid?

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• 22 hours ago 22h ago

Me and my ex were together for 8 months (her aged 15-16 and me 17) , and never used condoms. We were each other's first sexual partner and I'd roughly estimate we had sex about 50 times.

Were we being foolish? Were we just lucky that she didn't get pregnant or worse?

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Girl text me with 3 e's in 'hey' (srs)

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Girl text me with 3 e's in 'hey' (srs)

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Does she fancy me?

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Sexually incompatible after 6+ years?

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Sexually incompatible after 6+ years?

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I met my boyfriend 8 years ago and we'd always been friends since then. We got very close 6 years ago and started going out. After a few months when we did have sex, I was satisfied and so was he. It wasn't perfect but who is?

A few months ago my friend made a passing comment on my relationship. We're very close and discuss our sex lives occasionally. I told her that my boyfriend wasn't "rough" or "dominant" in the bedroom and that this was something I often find myself craving. She said that we were sexually incompatible as he's a soft "I love you so much" kind of guy. I love that about him but whenever I bring it up he feels uncomfortable with doing certain things. I don't want him to feel like he has to perform for me but I would like to be caught off guard by the odd spank or whatever. As if he were caught up in the moment and does something? I do like how loving he can be but the odd throat grab wouldn't hurt. Some kind of show of passion. It's difficult to explain.

I can't push this on him as I've brought it up twice and he's shut it down. He's the bodybuilding type and so doesn't mind picking me up etc, it's just other acts that he isn't so comfortable with. I want to push it but I don't want to hurt him.

I've always craved this kind of thing but been too awkward to say it. After my friends comment I feel on edge. I wouldn't leave him over this but I'd just like some advice.

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What will you do if your girlfirend post a photo of her in bikini with other guy?

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What will you do if your girlfirend post a photo of her in bikini with other guy?

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• 10 minutes ago 10m ago

and didnt tell you before she post

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I messed up things so badly with this girl that I just wanna hide under a rock

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I messed up things so badly with this girl that I just wanna hide under a rock

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• 21 hours ago 21h ago

I have this huge , HUGE crush on this girl that goes to my school.
Like huge.
We talked over the summer via texts and flirted a little bit.
Now you would think , cool you saw her , maybe you said hello , sat with her and tried to keep things up.
No sir.
What appears to be an attack of madness mixed with shyness hit me and I just COMPLETELY ignored the hell out of her when we were in class togheter , ran away like a rabbit and hit by even more madness I just decided to go out with another girl .
Now feel free to judge me even more than I am already doing to myself , but I was , am really scared about the whole thing , relationships just freak me out and this is the last year of high school and there is no way I can fix things after the mess I've done , actually I don't even know if she likes me anymore ( or if she ever did ), I just know I am a hopeless romantic who happens to be extremely stupid too and will end up alone for life.
I need advice.

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Consolidation/Reconciliation

For those who don't know my back story, my ex of 4 years and I split about 2 months ago. It finally got to the point where I could no longer continue down that road. Unfortunately, and I say that loosely, I feel like there was no closure at all.

I have been reading NMMG and I'm a textbook example. What I am struggling with right now is if I should go over or call or email her. There are things I'd like to get off my chest, not for her, but for myself. In thinking, I am figuring she of all people would be the best recipient for what I want to say.

Things I'd like to say include acknowledgment of how I failed in the relationship. Mistakes I made. Things of this nature. It's not to apologize to her but to own up to everything once and for all.

The other problem I am struggling with is, subconsciously, I think I'm attaching a string to the consolidations. I do not want to do this but I think this would happen. I'm trying to get to the point where I am no longer dishonest with myself and with others. When I say I'm a textbook example of a "nice guy," I define it in a way that Glover explains how most nice guys are dishonest in the first place.

Any thoughts? Would love to hear from both men and women.

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At breaking point

My Husband of 1 year likes to take recreational drugs with his group of single friends, we have been together in total for 6 years on and off and been through many issues together, one of which is him sleeping with someone on a lads holiday just a month after we had got back together.

When we first got together I knew he smoked pot and did drugs but I always thought that as he got older this would cease as he grew up. Its probably worth mentioning at this point that he does have depression and throughout our life together he has gone through cycles of smoking pot every day to complete abstinence, when he drinks there's no such thing as a few he takes it to the extreme. More recently he's been throwing himself into gambling and came home last week $250 worse off.

The fact is I think I'm dependant on him and I despise myself for it I wish I didn't care. I cannot understand how I've got myself to a stage that I can't live without him. Every time we've split up he's ended it and then wanted me back. He has always had nights at his mates houses and this is a weekly Friday night thing where he goes out straight from work. I can guarantee once a month he wont come home cos he's playing poker with the guys. Often he won't get in touch unless I get in touch with him to find out where he is and when he eventually does get in touch it's because he wants a lift home. I've tried saying no to a lift and then he just stays out even later coming home at 7pm for what's left of our weekend.

Every time I broach the subject with him he says that I knew this when I met him so I knew what I was getting into. His other married friends go out too but go home around midnight and when I've brought this up he doesn't see why marriage would mean he has to come home. He says he feels like he is living with a parent and considering I do most things round the house it feels like it too.

I've recently had a cervical procedure and had a haemorrhage at the beginning of the week due to doing too much. He took the week off work to look after me (whilst playing online poker) and went out at 5pm yesterday and he is still not home. I got a text in the early hours asking a lift in the morning and by midday I hadn't heard anything so rang him and he wanted a lift in a hour or so. I told him I wasn't his taxi so now he's getting the bus. Not before he's watched all today's sport over at his friends house.

I'm literally at the end of my fuse. I'd never stay out all night it feels like he has no respect. Whichever way I try and deal with the situation nothing ever works in my favour. He is very good with words and every argument we have I end up apologising. I wish so much I didn't love him. Sometimes I hope that his behaviour will finally push me away but I am still waiting.
I can't talk to anyone about this anymore. I know what people think and they think I am weak and a pushover and they are right. I just wish someone could hypnotize me out of this nightmare. I feels so alone.

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Socially awkward boyfriend

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Socially awkward boyfriend

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• 8 hours ago 8h ago

I find it hard to explain this but I'll try my best. I've been feeling really drained and irritated by my bf. He's a nice guy, but he's coming across as socially inept. I know not everyone is super out going and confident, but we've been together for a while now and nothing seems to have changed.

He can't really make conversation or keep a convo going. He only asks me simple yes or no answer questions, and it'll be the same ones all the time, and there's only so many times you can be asked the same thing until it gets irritating. For example a few months before going back to Uni all I got every time we hung out was "so you're going back to university soon" "yeah".... "University starts back soon" "yeah it does." Now I know I could say more and he's maybe trying to lead it to something, but there's only so many times I can give an answer to the same question.

I dunno if it's cos we don't have much in common or if it's him, he's maybe really nervous or doesn't really know how to socialise. I don't want to seem like I'm being too hard on him or nit picking. It's beginning to really make me feel crap and I dunno why. I hate being the initiator, otherwise we sit in silence. I don't feel like there's any spark or excitement. When I'm with him, after a bit I want to be by myself, like I get this feeling of wanting to be left alone. And I don't think that's a good sign at all. He'll say he missed me about 5 times in one day. And it's like yeah you said it once already... And after he says it the first time I don't say "I miss you too" to the rest because I think if I don't say it he'll get the hint to stop saying it several times, but he doesn't stop.

I told before I want him to initiate more stuff and take control more, but somehow he's confused that with being clingy and needy.

I dunno what to do. I think he'd take it really hard if I broke up with him. But it seems worse to continue and feel this crap and drained, and to stay with someone just cos you don't want to hurt their feelings..

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Size does matter

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Size does matter

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• 7 hours ago 7h ago

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brb jelqing.

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My housemate likes me and won't back off, help?

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My housemate likes me and won't back off, help?

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It's pretty obvious my housemate has a huge crush on me, but those feelings aren't returned. And it's starting to get too much.
First of all, it started when we'd all hang out, he would always sit next to me, even though when there's many free seats. Basically invades my personal space, practically sits on my knee so I can feel his breath on my face. After a few times he tried to cuddle me. The other night he did it again, but started stroking my leg. He always does it slyly when other housemates are there, so I feel awkward speaking up and telling him to stop. He texts me in the middle of the night asking if I'm still awake. I woke up this morning to find three missed calls from him at 2am.

I have made it obvious I don't like him back. A few months ago, when me and my boyfriend were just dating, he came round and we had sex. It must have been pretty obvious. But he still didn't back off. Every time we'd all hang out, I'd mention my boyfriend and how I love him and how we are going on a date that night and how I'm so excited. Still didn't back off after that. He still continued trying to cuddle me/feel my leg. A few nights ago, he even got in bed with me and cuddled me. I woke up completely horrified to see him, as I thought it was my boyfriend surprising me. I told him to go back to his room.

My boyfriend doesn't know about this. I nearly told him once but I'm terrified what will happen. He will either dump me or come round, beat the **** out this guy then buy me out of this house, pack my things up and force me to move in with him, which I don't want to do just yet because my other friends live here. I can't leave them. I've never had a direct talk with my housemate about it, because I thought getting into a relationship with the love of my life would send him a very clear message; that I'm clearly not available. It's like he believes he can 'win' me which infuriates me. I wouldn't go there with him even if I was single and desperate. There's only one man for me and it's not him.

What should I do?

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Do relationships last through Uni?

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Do relationships last through Uni?

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• 1 Hour Ago 1 hour ago

So my boyfriend has just currently started Uni and ill be going next year.
Obviously id love to go there with him and so would he but there are other Universities which are just so much better for my course.
Can a relationship last when your at separate places?

Also for us to visit each other its like 5 hours travelling time :(

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Muslim girls/guys, what's it like being in a relationship?

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Muslim girls/guys, what's it like being in a relationship?

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This is mainly aimed at muslim girls/guys who have been/are in a relationship. Ive come very close to having a boyfriend but backed off as I know it's not right and itd be too complicated. Im glad that im not in one though.

I wanted to know what its like being in one in terms of islam and what difficulties youve experienced. Are you happy youve had a relationship? What are the limitations youve had? And lastly (and most importantly) do your parents know?

Ive been wondering for quite a long time so enlighten me!

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Boyfriend or Boyfriend's BFF?

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Boyfriend or Boyfriend's BFF?

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One day, my boyfriend brought me to his best friends party. Ya know the usual, getting drunk and horny. Well, my boyfriend went over to a drunk girl and kissed her, i later found out. I saw my boyfriends bff WITHOUT HIS CLOTHES ON AND RUBBING HIS DICK!!! He didn't see me and I've been secretly fantasizing about him below me, pushing deeper every time he moves. He has asked me out before, even when Jacob and I were dating (my boyfriend). But I love my boyfriend and I know he was drunk that night. Who do I choose?

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Getting back to normal living after leaving a long term relationship

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Getting back to normal living after leaving a long term relationship

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Hi, I just recently got out of a relationship with a girl I was dating for a year. I've realised it was the best thing to do but now I'm bit lost with what to do from here. She was my first serious relationship and I invested so much time in her to the point I lost some friends a long the way and lost sight of what was important. Now I just need tips on how to be on my own again, and to cope with what I guess is my first serious breakup :)

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