FWB problems...

Posting in here as I'm banned from the relationship forum and I thought this was the second best suitable forum. I've had a FWB for over two years now, although we've developed feelings for one another, but recently things have been up & down and I'm not finding any fun in it anymore - it's very mundane and I can't see a future for us either as I'm off to a university three hours away this year. Although we're not together it just feels like we are and he's very very loyal to me which is making it harder for me to try and part from him. I, on the other hand, have kissed a couple of guys and had one sexual encounter with someone else last summer, but nothing since. As much as I like to think I wouldn't, I know that I'll probably want to hook up with other guys when I'm away at university, so I feel it's best to end this now as much as we like one another. In the past whenever I've tried to, he keeps messaging and ringing me and eventually everything's back to normal after a few days. Lately though things have been pretty crap. There's no excitement anymore, and he hasn't been satisfying me enough in the bedroom, plus he's done a few things that have annoyed me which I don't want to go in to. I feel like the only way I can get over him is to start sleeping with someone else, although I don't really want to hurt him... If he did the same to me I'd be utterly distraught, but on the other hand I think 'we're not together, so why not?' The other thing is that I've not really been in contact with any other guys since he's been on the scene :S I'm really unsure what to do, but I feel like it's now or never. He has said he wants me in his life forever, but I just can't do this anymore. Please help

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