are we just friends, friends with benefits or potential to go anywhere!? help! :(

I'm 18 & have recently started liking someone I've been pretty good friends with for 6 years or so, however never looked at him in this way. We kissed on my birthday & spent all day together at his house after a night out a while ago however after that day we didn't speak much at all & I gave up trying to put the effort in to see if he would return it (which he didn't). We were also in an "open relationship" for a while on Facebook (I know childish but like I said we are friends and it was all a joke) however after not speaking for a month or more I decided to end that before he did & make me out to look the idiot. However on Saturday night when I was out I text him to see if he was out to which he was but I didn't know he had facebooked me earlier on that night asking me if I was going out (Coinsidence? Haha, although i know be only asked me because he seen i ended the thing on facebook, i know relating everything back to facebook is immature but sure..) anyway turns out we were at different places but I met up with him later on and he came back to mine, he left his jacket at my house and came to collect it today although it was awkward when he came because his friend was in the car as they were going out. My problem is I thought I was done with it when we hadn't spoke for ages the second time, because frankly it's messing with my head & can see the same thing happening this time, we won't speak for almost a month & then see eachother out again and the same thing will happen. I know it's silly to ask is he just using me because its quite obvious but as we were such good friends I wouldn't like to think he would use me like that and mess up our friendship? I just don't know whether he's being a typical guy and using me or has any real interest but afraid to show it? should I say something or just get used to it? Posted from TSR Mobile

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