I'll try to keep it short. My husband and I just got married about 8 months ago. He is a super friendly guy and everyone likes him, including my family and friends. He has been trying to set up one of my friends (who lives out of town) and one of his friends. Because my friend does not live in town and his friend is pretty immature and not looking for a relationship, the set-up was sort of a long running joke. My husband, his friend, and my friend all had a group text message that was pretty innocent, at least I thought, until my friend came in town for the holidays and told me (after quite a few drinks) that my husband was saying innapropriate things in the group message and she felt uncomfortable. She said he was saying things like "send us tit-pics", and when another friend got brought up in the message he replied by saying "I would never f*** her, not for a million dollars" (they were talking about her in that context). I was furious. I confronted him and told him that he was crossing the line, he has a problem with taking things too far, and that he was making my friend uncomfortable. I also told him it was disrespectful to me as his wife and that he needs to stop now.
Of course the picture text made me mad, but also him saying he would never sleep with this other friend confused me. Obviously he would never sleep with her because he's married to me.
When i confronted him, he said his words were taken out of context and that he was quoting a movie. He says I come down on him too hard for things.
The last part of this is, the next day my friend texted both me and him separately saying she was sorry and that she hoped she didn't cause any drama between the two of us and that she loved us both.
Can someone please tell me - am I overreacting? I was pretty disgusted at first, but I am trying to look at this from a different perspective now.
Of course the picture text made me mad, but also him saying he would never sleep with this other friend confused me. Obviously he would never sleep with her because he's married to me.
When i confronted him, he said his words were taken out of context and that he was quoting a movie. He says I come down on him too hard for things.
The last part of this is, the next day my friend texted both me and him separately saying she was sorry and that she hoped she didn't cause any drama between the two of us and that she loved us both.
Can someone please tell me - am I overreacting? I was pretty disgusted at first, but I am trying to look at this from a different perspective now.
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