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Ex husband is serving me

I have full, legal and physical custody of my fourteen year old daughter. For a variety of reasons, not only including my job I have moved out of state with my daughter, always informing the court of my new address, as per my agreement. A day ago, my ex husband had someone he and I both know, who last time I checked had been trying to pass the bar for 10 years and had failed to do so call me and demand I return to the home state. When I refused to talk to this person on the phone he said you're refusing to return to this state and hung up on me. Keep in mind that my ex husband has had no permanent address for the four years that we have been divorced. He usually gives the court a fake friend's address. During the visitation I granted him last summer, because he has no visitation, he violated our written agreement and took my daughter for weeks and kept her in a semi truck as he drove across country.
Well now, I'm sure he is serving me with some kind of motion and I just find the whole thing unbelievable. I work as a teacher and I don't make a lot of money and he has thousands he owes us in child support. He has assaulted me, railed at me, tried to bully me but mostly what I am concerned with is my daughter's well-being. My daughter gets crazy emotional and thinks her father is being taken away from her. He has her convinced that I am the enemy and trying to persecute him. He came to visit her here in our new home and said he would take her out for the day and not anywhere far out of the city limits. As I am taking my daughter to the door and wishing her well, he begins to fuss at her about her not having a bag with clothes in. I ask why would she need more clothes for a day trip and he says they are planning on going to another city far away or maybe anywhere. I say no one told me anything about this. I said I just spoke with him a few minutes ago by phone and he told me nothing about these plans. He tells me it is up to our daughter, who was still 13, at the time as she is an adult and he doesn't have to tell me anything. He demands to take to my daughter (He has tried to kidnap her other times) and I say no. My daughter becomes hysterical. I say until we can agree on where she's going and she calms down, the visitation is off. My daughter's reaction astounded me, she was absolutely hysterical thinking her father was going to be so angry with her and calling herself stupid for not handling it better. Apparently he had her lie to me and she had been worried about this for days. He ended up making a spectacle of himself in my neighborhood and called the police on me. The cop of course, told him to leave and my daughter to listen to me.
I am sorry for this long rant... the whole situation is unbelievable as anyone gone through anything similar... what kind of trouble can he cause?




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