If you are new to TAM and CWI, you'll probably have been given some duff advice before arriving here. Well, as someone with experience, please let me tell you... you did not make your partner, wife, husband or lover cheat on you. Oh, you might have helped create a situation where bad things could happen, but that happens to millions of couples. But guess what? Millions of couples do not have problems with infidelity. Only some. Some marriage counsellors will tell you that you are 50% responsible for the cheating of your spouse. This is not true. You might be up to 50% responsible for any problems in your relationship, but the cheater is 100% responsible for the cheating. Don't let anyone try to convince you otherwise! Can infidelity in a marriage be coped with and the marriage saved? Yes. They can be. Not all can, but some can. And remember you are amongst people here who have been where you are.:smthumbup: | |||
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It really isn't you. It IS them!
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