Hey all,
I'm newish to posting and whatnot here. I have something called friedreich's ataxia, I am Wheelchair bound. My husband is my full time caregiver.
I was wondering if there was maybe any other women here who are in the sameish boat who could relate or if anyone has friends or wives or anyone. I've got some sex/relationship questions/issues and some personal issues i wouldn't mind talking about.
Most "normal" people don't/can't get it, so it'd be cool to get some tips/suggestions.
Having FA, I have little to no balance. Sex positions are extremely limited to 3 or 4. We've done a lot of googling but come up short(apparently Balance impaired people don't have sex or something).
My husband says hes good with how we do it, but i worry he'll get bored(if he's not already) We always pretty much matched each others sex drive When we first got together we had sex multiple times a day daily, then it died down after we got married as it does in most cases(still was 3-5x a week) then 4 years ago we moved to NZ(where my husbands from) the first year i was quite depressed and home sick so my drive as way down, then was real high so we decided to get me on bc(low to no hormonal) so i got the Jedelle Implant...big mistake..my libedo was non-existant and i bled for 5 strait months. So out that came, took about 6 more month for my libedo to get back to normal. The Past year and a half my sex drive has been higher then ever and His seems real low(maybe because mines so high?) Super frustrating.
So many things run through my head about why we don't have much sex, is he bored? Is he not attracted to me any more? Is he unhappy? If i ask he tells me by asking like that makes maters worse? Why? What?:confused:
I'm newish to posting and whatnot here. I have something called friedreich's ataxia, I am Wheelchair bound. My husband is my full time caregiver.
I was wondering if there was maybe any other women here who are in the sameish boat who could relate or if anyone has friends or wives or anyone. I've got some sex/relationship questions/issues and some personal issues i wouldn't mind talking about.
Most "normal" people don't/can't get it, so it'd be cool to get some tips/suggestions.
Having FA, I have little to no balance. Sex positions are extremely limited to 3 or 4. We've done a lot of googling but come up short(apparently Balance impaired people don't have sex or something).
My husband says hes good with how we do it, but i worry he'll get bored(if he's not already) We always pretty much matched each others sex drive When we first got together we had sex multiple times a day daily, then it died down after we got married as it does in most cases(still was 3-5x a week) then 4 years ago we moved to NZ(where my husbands from) the first year i was quite depressed and home sick so my drive as way down, then was real high so we decided to get me on bc(low to no hormonal) so i got the Jedelle Implant...big mistake..my libedo was non-existant and i bled for 5 strait months. So out that came, took about 6 more month for my libedo to get back to normal. The Past year and a half my sex drive has been higher then ever and His seems real low(maybe because mines so high?) Super frustrating.
So many things run through my head about why we don't have much sex, is he bored? Is he not attracted to me any more? Is he unhappy? If i ask he tells me by asking like that makes maters worse? Why? What?:confused:
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