Yesterday my wife and I were chatting and the girls were being a little crazy. She said "YOUR girls are getting nutty". I jokingly replied that only a DNA test would prove they were mine.
We chatted a while longer and then got on with our work around the house (we are trying to sell). A while later she came to me and said the DNA comment was hurtful. I apologized and told her it was only meant jokingly.
Moving forward a couple hours, we were chatting again about different issues and she said if it weren't for the kids that you wouldn't be here. I thought nothing of it at the time, but now it has me thinking.
She had been adamant against selling the house up until a month ago. All of a sudden she wants to sell and get a smaller more affordable place.
Now I'm thinking to myself,"is she just getting her ducks in a row with a house she knows she could afford by herself?" "If we do get a new place will she say she wants to split up?"
I'm certain there is no infidelity involved (can never be 100% sure) and we seem to be happier and more connected then we have been in the past.
Could this just be a coincidence? Is there some other red flags I should be looking for?
I have looked at her phone but haven't seen anything unusual, she rarely uses the computer and she does have a password on her phone but let me know what it is. She isn't secretive with her phone in any where you at? At all either.
Am I just being a little paranoid are do I possibly have a legitimate concern?
We chatted a while longer and then got on with our work around the house (we are trying to sell). A while later she came to me and said the DNA comment was hurtful. I apologized and told her it was only meant jokingly.
Moving forward a couple hours, we were chatting again about different issues and she said if it weren't for the kids that you wouldn't be here. I thought nothing of it at the time, but now it has me thinking.
She had been adamant against selling the house up until a month ago. All of a sudden she wants to sell and get a smaller more affordable place.
Now I'm thinking to myself,"is she just getting her ducks in a row with a house she knows she could afford by herself?" "If we do get a new place will she say she wants to split up?"
I'm certain there is no infidelity involved (can never be 100% sure) and we seem to be happier and more connected then we have been in the past.
Could this just be a coincidence? Is there some other red flags I should be looking for?
I have looked at her phone but haven't seen anything unusual, she rarely uses the computer and she does have a password on her phone but let me know what it is. She isn't secretive with her phone in any where you at? At all either.
Am I just being a little paranoid are do I possibly have a legitimate concern?
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