Realising no one wants me.

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Realising no one wants me.

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• 33 minutes ago 33m ago

So I've tried the usual clubs of meeting girls, to online relationships, which sometimes work (mostly it's the girl who ends it), and I've had no luck, even when at University.

Gotten to the point of just accepting I can't find anyone and thats ok. But I don't want it to be ok for eternity.
Sorry in advance if this thread makes me seem weak at finding a girlfriend. I'd class myself as attractive, cute, smart, funny etc, but whether a girl will find that me being me is awesome, is another matter.

Also, thanks in advance if you reply to my thread. Any advice is welcome.

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Name: Adam
Age: 22 (not 73 as the username implies).
Location: Birmingham.
Hobbies: Cycling, Tennis, watching Simpsons, Family Guy etc. HUGE Disney / Pixar fan.
Own a radio show and website called 'TranceTunes4U'; Have a huge social media presence; Study IT at Uni.

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Could do with some crush advice...

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Could do with some crush advice...

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• 1 Hour Ago 1 hour ago

I realise that this sort of thread gets made quite a lot but I could do with some advice about a crush that I'm really struggling with...

Bit of info about me. I'm a guy. I'm pretty successful with girls - I can pull on odd occasions on a night out and most crushes I have (I really don't get many), I usually end up doing at least stuff with (I've been in a few long-term relationships). So this sort of situation is entirely new to me.

So, there's a girl I work with (and this is by no means an exaggeration) who is absolutely perfect to me. She's one of the prettiest girls I've ever met and her personality is just unbelievable. She's a bit quirky, we share so many common interests and I truly crave time that I get with her. We get on so well and I always have such a laugh when I'm with her. If I was asked to describe my perfect girl, she would be pretty damn close to it.

Massive downside though... she already has a boyfriend who she's been going out with for coming up to two years. They also live together as they go to the same university (the one in our hometown).

I understand that she's completely off-limits but we often work the exact same shifts and we go on nights out in a group quite regularly, so it's not easy to just avoid her.

I don't really know why I've posted this thread, to be honest. Part of me just wants to vent and another part of me wants advice, most of which will will just be to "try and get over her". Honestly, I get it. Another part of me just reckons it's the amount of alcohol I've had tonight (hence me posting this at 5AM).

But, like I've already said, this scenario is a pretty new experience for me. And I'm finding it really, really difficult. Any words of wisdom or comfort would be massively appreciated.

Again, sorry about the 5 millionth thread of this subject. I don't really have another avenue to confide to and, to be honest, It's been pretty good just to get these thoughts down.

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