Although never an excuse for why affairs occur, what was the number one condition present (that may have contributed) when your Spouse cheated? I suppose number one is always "intent to cheat", so maybe I should be asking for number two.
Some common conditions present that I have noted when reading this forum:
1 Being apart for some period of time
2 Toxic friends
3 Alcohol or other substance abuse
4 Sex addiction
5 Escape from daily grind (spouse, kids, homelife, bills, etc)
6 Getting older (turning 30, 40, etc)
7 Co-workers
8 Kids grown and out of the house
For my situation, Toxic Friends was number one and that condition has been permanently removed from our marriage going forward.
Some common conditions present that I have noted when reading this forum:
1 Being apart for some period of time
2 Toxic friends
3 Alcohol or other substance abuse
4 Sex addiction
5 Escape from daily grind (spouse, kids, homelife, bills, etc)
6 Getting older (turning 30, 40, etc)
7 Co-workers
8 Kids grown and out of the house
For my situation, Toxic Friends was number one and that condition has been permanently removed from our marriage going forward.
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