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Controlling sister... Am i in the wrong?

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Heya, so my sister is kind of insecure about facebook and stuff

She messaged me saying please post on my wall, and when I dont say yes she will go on and on making out im a bad sister

Like once i messaged her a link to a show i thought we could both see together and she said 'post that on my wall then ill respond"

I feel uncomfortable being fake and doing that


Can i have an outsiders opinion since i have grown up with this all my life?

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i like someone on tsr

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help!! i like this guy on tsr even though i don't want to like him.. he already knows this. :|

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Pornography..?

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WHAT ARE UR THOUGHTS ON PORNOGRAPHY CONTRIBUTING TO SEXUAL VIOLENCE AGAINST WOMEN? DO U BELIEVE THERE IS A POTENTIAL LINK?
let me know would love to hear your opinions...

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Stds / does it cross your mind much?

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Do stds and things like HIV cross your mind when starting a relationship with someone new?

I was also wondering what it's like after a one night stand, does it suddenly hit you to go and get tested?

Hollyoaks are doing a storyline now with a guy who knew he had HIV who still sleeps with someone else with no protection. It's quite scary if you think about how much we trust people.




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Worried about what sort of person I've become

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So I've been at quite a low point recently. It kind of started in November when I hooked up with a guy at a party who I really liked who then went onto reject me. I've also been on a couple of dates since and nothing seemed to come from them. However I have been on tinder for a while and I met up with this guy (went round his, he didn't leave far) and we got pretty physical (fingering).

Now a few months ago I never would have let something like this happen and I am worried what people might think about me and stuff idk. I come across quite innocent and I was until a while ago but now it's like I don't care who I hook up with and am worried people will think I'm desperate etc. I don't know why I let this happen - I never would've done something so casual before and I'm slightly worried people might find out or something. Also is it rude to tell him not to say anything to people about what happened and am I stupid for being like this? I want a nice, stable relationship more than anything in the world and I feel like I've given up or something.

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Am I being needy

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hi sorry if a similar thread already exists! I'm hooking up with a guy, not exclusive. I like him, don't love him though before anyone asks. Basically he's getting kinda fed up with me texting him to ask if he's home safe. I only ask when we meet up late at night and do exactly the same if I meet any of my friends. Also he lives in the middle of nowhere and I know if he misses the last bus he walks back, so I do worry a bit. We went out over a week ago and he said he'd let me know he was home safe but he never did. I saw he was active on FB so sent him a message saying 'guessing your not lying in a ditch somewhere' and he never replied. So do I have any right to be a bit peed off or am I being needy and expecting too much.

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Poetry to help you move on after a breakup/ transitional periods?

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I find that poetry really helps me in times of self-reflection and transitional periods in my life. I have always loved Ulysses by Tennyson; sample this:

I am a part of all that I have met;
Yet all experience is an arch wherethro'
Gleams that untravell'd world whose margin fades
For ever and forever when I move.
How dull it is to pause, to make an end,
To rust unburnish'd, not to shine in use!
As tho' to breathe were life!

Poems that helped me deal a recent transitional phase after a breakup include:

Elizabeth Bishop's One Art
Margaret Atwood's You fit into me
W.H Auden's Musee des Beaux Arts
Derek Walcott's Love after love
Philip Larkin's Since The Majority Of Me and Love, we must part now

Any recommendations for poetry (and novels, plays, etc.) that may have helped you get through a slightly stressful phase/overcome a loss of some kind?

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He lost my number ..

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I had been talking to this lad a few weeks and suddenly he stops texting me . I saw him out with his friends then i get a message a day later on a media website asking for my number wen he already has it...


Should I message him back ?

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Promised to save myself for him..

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Sorry for the long post i didnt know what was important to mention and what was not..

Me and my boyfriend were together for just over 4 years.

We split up a few days ago on the basis that right now we cant make time for eachother, I've moved away to uni and hes currently revising for his exams at sixth form and has a place for uni in September. I have a job which takes up most of my free time as im trying to save up for a car with the money i earn and put it towards my accommodation fees too. He LOVES football and its always been a part of him. He plays for two teams and works on other days so its difficult to find time for each other.

Anyhow, we decided to break up on the basis that we cant right now make time for each other. I didnt expect him to show any emotions and try to play it cool but he broke down crying and tried to reassure me that he wasnt letting this happen because he didnt love me but because he thought it was the best for both of us right now and he wanted me to concentrate on my work and making some new friends.

He then asked me to get my pinky read (like your going to make a "pinky" promise with your little finger) and said "you dont have to promise me this but i want to promise you anyway so you know how much you mean to me" and then he said that he is willing to save himself for me and not do anything with anyone else and come back to me when the time is right and we both have time for the relationship. He then asked me if id promise to do the same which i did and we pinky promised (its a thing of ours).

He said we will know when the time is right and he wont keep me waiting long and he will come back for me and we can move on from this knowing we have both been loyal to each other (we have both only been with each other sexually)

We said goodbye and he walked home and later that night he text me saying "Please wait for me.. i meant every last word and every kiss, ive promised it not to be our last! I give you all my love and trust. Yours forever X"


I dont know what im actually asking for but does anyone have any advice on how i should speak to him when he texts me out the blue asking how i am? (lovingly, friendly etc?) If he asks me for a catch up to go for something to eat or anything should i accept? im confused as to whether im supposed to show my love for him still or dye it down and act more friendly..

Advice would be well appreciated, thanks for reading.

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Manly shaving... down there

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Does anyone know a way of preventing the itchiness/ redness after shaving down below?

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Guys that want their wife/gf to work full time

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Based on this thread:

http://ift.tt/1uG7lHU

Imo I cannot imagine myself with a girl that doesn't want to work full-time in a proper job.

What are your thoughts? Agree/Disagree? Discuss.

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females, Why are you single?

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Dont you like the warmth of a man? A man that will please and pleasure you the way you desire?

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Did he got bored of me? Were parents involved?

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1) We dated for 4 months, got to know each other over the course of a year
2) We're teens (under 18)
3) His reason for dumping me was that he just wasn't ready for a relationship, but he said that we could still be friends
4) He seemed VERY INTO ME until one week prior to the break up, when he was a little less physically affectionate and didn't see me quite as often (but that could be because of parental intervention--see 9).
5) Up until MINUTES before the break up he texted me ALL throughout the day (as he always did after we started dating) asking about my opinions, interests, what I was up to, giving me updates about his life, saying good night, etc.
6) I was recovering from surgery... so maybe he just texted all the time because he felt bad for me? We discussed many other things beyond how I was recovering though
7) He bought me flowers about a week before the break up due to my injury
8) He always kept up with doing me little favors/being a gentleman
9) One of his parents (who he is VERY close to/who he allows to control nearly his ENTIRE life) made it clear they did not like him dating. They wouldn't allow us to be completely alone together.
10) He is very passive (conflict avoider) and aims to please his parents first and foremost
11) I was his first gf. As far as I know he hasn't dated in the months since.
12) I said I couldn't be friends for a while because I didn't trust him. He sent the last text saying he was sorry, and neither one of us has initiated contact since.
13) After, he didn't help me with my injury, but acted like a polite stranger up until last month. Now, he acts like I don't exist.
14) I've actively avoided him, making sure he was uninvited from a gathering of mutual friends.
15) When people ask his best friend what happened, he says it just "kind of faded"/"ran its course"
16) Due to mutual religious beliefs, it was never sexual


Thanks!

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How often do you see your partner?

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Well?
Do you think you see each other enough, too little or is it too much?

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Questionnaire help PLZ :)

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hi guys its me again lol but i really really need more people to fill out my questionnaire.. it literally takes 2 mins and i am prepared to fill out anybody else questionnaire in return. thanks
http://ift.tt/1Cwnws8

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