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So, to cut a long story short on Monday I had a one night stand, where I lost my virginity. The guy I slept with also said that he was a virgin and we seemed to be getting on pretty well together. He was really complimentary of me and really nice, saying that he was glad it was me and other things.
However, after we had finished (we had sat kissing and cuddling a little while after sex) he left the room and while he was gone a couple of his flat mates came in, which was awkward. After this he did not come back (in his own flat I must add) and I don't know if his flat mates had said anything to him (I'm overweight - I'm assuming that they may have taken the p**s). Anyway, after sitting around waiting for him to come back for a while I left too. On the way out one of his flat mates said that he had wanted to give me his number, but did not know where he had gone either.
I have found him on Facebook and now I am not sure whether I should send him a message? And exactly what to say. I was not sure if I should have left him my contact details so that he could get in touch with me if he wanted. Or whether I was just being used and fell for flattery that got me into his bed? Some advice would be very helpful
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Hi all,
Me and my ex had each other's Facebook passwords throughout the relationship. When we broke up in June, I changed it. However we kept talking up until 2 months ago, at which point she told me she no longer had feelings for me and wanted me to move on, and she then changed her Facebook password. I was really sad and I know I should've followed the no contact rule but basically I kept messaging her and calling her. She would mostly ignore me but sometimes I would drunk text her and she would ignore, but she sometimes showed interest. I think she liked the attention I was giving her.
Anyway, I gave up on her completely and switched my password back because I'm used to it, and I didnt think she'd log on because she said she was over me. I finally stopped messaging her 2 weeks ago COMPLETELY. No texts, calls or anything. A few days ago I started realizing that some of my Facebook messages have been read. I turned on email log on notifications last Saturday and, shockingly, she logged on to my Facebook over 20 times since then (that's 20+ times in 5 days). I wondered if maybe that meant she misses me...I tried logging onto her Facebook and noticed she changed her password back to the old one a week ago (maybe she wants me to check it?)
She already checked my Facebook twice today. I'm confused because either she misses me or she just checks cuz girls are curious...and I'm scared that if I message her I'll break the no contact rule and seem desperate again. If she had some interest though, wouldn't she message me? Or is her pride maybe getting in the way? What should I do?
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There's some girls I'm "friends" with but they never reply to me. Even simple messages like "how have you been these few days?" go unanswered. I don't bother with a follow up but it's just strange that these girls talk to me at college and totally ignore me when texting.
What does this mean, could I just terrible at texting or are some girls just not into texting at all?
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Back at Uni and in final year now.
I'm a good-looking, average Joe of a guy who's grown incredibly tired of the socially accepted norms of finding someone to have sex with (Go out, drink loads, approach, spend a **** tonne of money blah blah. I don't want to do it this year.)
I just want to find someone who's up for a sober shag.
I'm not prepared to join on-line dating sites because I don't want pictures of me plastered around the internet asking for casual sex.
Anyone got any ideas on how I could go about finding one ? Wouldn't it be easier if there were websites like Omegle for individual cities ?
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So i really like this girl from school and i dont want to delay asking her out any longer before someone else does. She aint slutty, just quite, smiley and friendly...
I talk to her on facebook sometimes but havent got the nuts to ask her out and need advise on how to grow some balls and in what way to ask her? Like how do i do it?
and once im with her, how do i keep the relationship going without making her feel bored...
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So i really like this girl, and i dont want to delay asking her out any longer before someone else does. She aint slutty, just quite, smiley and friendly...
I talk to her on facebook sometimes but havent got the nuts to ask her out and need advise on how to grow some balls and in what way to ask her? Like how do i do it?
and once im with her, how do i keep the relationship going without making her feel bored...
rep for best answer and you get a flollower..
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I'll (try to) keep this short...
So last year I took part in a summer programme and there was this guy in my group I really "hit off" with from day one. He was smart, funny and most of tall (I'm the equivalence of a human giraffe so he was a miracle) <-- that's a joke don't take it seriously. But obviously with attributes like that he was bound to attract quite a few girls, and he did. But there was rumours that he was interested in me which I was obviously over the moon about :$. So after the summer programme we'd all plan to hang out etc, and the one time we tried to we decided to go ice skating but only me, him and another guy turned up so we decided to go to the cinema instead. It was the most awkward thing ever, I barely said two words and after that i thought i had no chance. Also during the time between the end of the summer programme and the awkward cinema date thing or whatever (idek what that was) he was in Spain but i messaged him a few times but i didn't think he seemed interested, so after that i never did again. And the last time i saw him was at the end of September time and he gave me the longest hug ever . like probably 40 seconds and at one point i was like aren't you going to let go and he said he was waiting for me to let go but when i tried to move back he still held on.
Now one year on, i can't stop thinking about him. Not like for the whole year, but now especially. i can't go on facebook without checking if he's online. I think about texting him but then read our last convos and cringe so hard and just don't do it.
But my question is to those who have come this far - shall i text him or not?
Any advice and/or experience welcomed boys and girls
(^yeah that's not exactly short - but neither were Ted Mosby's stories and they were legen-wait for it-dary)
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Hi
I have a problem that i know this isn't mentally right. I went on holiday to my painful home country nigeria for three weeks and i had to stay at one of my houses there. I hated the holiday so much because i worried that people around me would see me as a **** (i have depression). Cut the long story short i met this hot girl. She is basically my neighbour in Nigeria (makes this even strange to love her) she was sooo kind and so nice to me unlike her stupid family, she was like the only person nice to me and as one of my cousins said i should have taken it further. Even when she caught me perving at her she even said hi to me. I just want to bloody marry her or something, as im now no longer attracted to any girl i see in London.
I know this question doesn't make sense but im getting tired of dreaming of her, it's been more than a month since i returned from nigeria and my mind should be back to normal. I want to forget about her and move on help me?
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