i married a wonderful man that lost his wife after 25 yrs of marriage to Cancer. She was suffering for many yrs and lost the battle after 10 yrs in 2010. Someone put him on a site to start to date again and we met and married after living together 3 yrs. so she is dead 5 yrs. but he still reminisces with his kids when we go some place that was there place or stories what they did, and it bothers me that his passed life with her is interfering with my life with him. I've told him how I don't care to hear about his past because I wasn't in his life and I wish he would keep it to himself and I remind him we have a life now and he should focus on the now not the past. and it annoys him when I get upset when he brings me somewhere that was in his past . I don't frown a pond him reminiscing when he's with his kids because that was their Mom, but they do it purposely to upset me b/c they r selfish adults that don't take into consideration that he deserves a li fe. He's only 60 and I'm 50. What's your thoughts?
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