It's proving a struggle to say the least. It's demotivating not doing well at my A2'S and it's really getting me down :( HELP?!
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Boyfriend and good college grades...
Strange ex texting.
So my ex and I broke up very soon after heading off to uni - she ended up in bed with another guy, don't know whether she cheated, and then proceeded to ignore me completely to text him when I visited. Pretty outrageous considering her talk of kids and soulmates just weeks earlier.
Anyway, I removed her from fb a couple of month after the breakup because I wasn't recovering seeing her on there everyday, knowing she was talking to my replacement.
The other day she text me saying I had hurt her by removing her. She said that was missing me a little and told me her head had gone into "overdrive" when I suggested I might be seeing someone else.
FInally she said that she "felt lost".
Any thoughts on any of this? Is she questioning her decision or was she just have a down day/trouble with the other guy?
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Anyone out there who never drinks? Do you know anyone who doesn't?
I mean never drinks. If you don't, do your friends? Why don't you drink and what do you tell people when they ask you?
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May the Force be with you Spock......?
Leonard Nimoy died yesterday of complications caused by COPD. He quit smoking decades earlier. I enjoyed his character very much as Mr. Spock, the Vulcan science officer and second in command of the starship Enterprise. I actually am old enough, just old enough, to have seen it's first run each week that my oldest brother was home. I had no control of the television. I was too little.
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I think there is no Vulcan saying like "Live long and prosper", for a eulogy. I think Vulcans would transfer their consciousness to their closest ally so they would live on.
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I think there is no Vulcan saying like "Live long and prosper", for a eulogy. I think Vulcans would transfer their consciousness to their closest ally so they would live on.
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First date
Yes it is true… first dates are really hard to go through and a lot end up before they can even start. Below are the top five important things to remember when going out for the first date.
Always have a listening ear to your date. Listen to what they say, not hearing them actually but by paying attention to what they really say so you will know more about them.
1. Be sure to say thanks if he does something nice to you.
2. Be honest to him as much as possible. If you want to be just friends with him and don't want to push it to another level, say it to him. The guy may usually don't want to hear it however it's much better to say it now than later on.
3. Also don't go hard with alcohol on the first date.
4. Try to laugh or smile if he throws a joke even if it's not funny.
5. Don't forget to make an eye contact to him especially when talking and just smile.
Always have a listening ear to your date. Listen to what they say, not hearing them actually but by paying attention to what they really say so you will know more about them.
1. Be sure to say thanks if he does something nice to you.
2. Be honest to him as much as possible. If you want to be just friends with him and don't want to push it to another level, say it to him. The guy may usually don't want to hear it however it's much better to say it now than later on.
3. Also don't go hard with alcohol on the first date.
4. Try to laugh or smile if he throws a joke even if it's not funny.
5. Don't forget to make an eye contact to him especially when talking and just smile.
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Why did I make this trans guy uncomfortable by dressing more masculine?
I was at out of the box group last Tuesday. I got a hair cut. And didn't wear much make up and wore jeans and a shirt. I have a pretty ambiguous facial appearance and build but still attractive. Among them im gay so I don't really think I'm a threat since they're all straight so I don't really get his problem. He was really nice before when I looked more feminine.i have been going to this group for a long time. They always assumed I was born male when I dressed really feminine. I dressed really feminine because I was scared. And my body shape and face don't look that feminine it just looks like I wear make up and have "fake" boobs. But The people there the transmen couldn't tell me from the trans women there. I may be intersex since I have symptoms of an intersex condition. I was overcompensating for the fact that I was there i always liked appearing to be the straight girl. Anyhow it's like a sense of anger coming from one person in the group almost. For one he'd randomly say stuff like my hair isn't real when it was obvious I had my hair cut. It's like only 4 inches long now. And then went to to make a joke about my being so small because I was talking about body types and cravings. It was like they were trying to insult my "manhood" but I don't get why now? When previously I was there for like the past few weeks? He takes a lot of T like the most he can oersonally and looks like a passable man. Just gayish sounding. I still look like a girl who is more masculine but pretty and petit still. I have high testosterone levels naturally it's why I have big feet a deep voice a not so feminine face and the coveted T shape men want to have and other stuff I don't really notice because I'm used to it. People always make jokes though on whether I'm a boy or a girl if I am not making an effort to look feminine. What I don't get is why someone has it together be upset at someone who isn't even on hormones? I don't get it? But ever since I sta rted dressing more masculine that person has seemed to act as if they're threatened? I'm pre everything probably will be my whole life. I don't what his problem is?
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Texting for 6+ years....
I've been texting a guy for a long time. We always strike up conversation etc. He's tried to call me a few times but I would be in a seminar/lecture etc and he wouldn't try again and I'd forget about it. He tells me most things about his life, a lot actually. We knew of one another in school, used to talk at times but always had a weird connection/ mutual understanding. I don't really know what this texting thing means for a guy.
Could any of you give perspective onto whether or not you'd text a girl this long if the relationship was seemingly platonic? He moved away from our area years ago so we haven't been able to meet. He's still really caring via text so I don't really know if the texting for this long itself means anything???
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Oral sex and personal hygiene - am I alone here?
When my wife and I engage in oral sex we always ensure that we are both clean so this activity will normally happen straight after a shower or bath.
In movies oral sex tends to be spontaneous between a couple regardless of their state of personal cleanliness at that moment. So I guess that our oral activity is planned rather than spontaneous although a quick 'douche' is not uncommon when we are horny and 'head' is on offer.
Am I alone here on this issue ?
In movies oral sex tends to be spontaneous between a couple regardless of their state of personal cleanliness at that moment. So I guess that our oral activity is planned rather than spontaneous although a quick 'douche' is not uncommon when we are horny and 'head' is on offer.
Am I alone here on this issue ?
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My wife had an affair with my ex boss
First let me tell you a little something about our situation. I'm 36 and she's 25. We've been together since she was 18 and I was 28. We met at work and even though we never planned on being anything more than a fling. But after about 9 months of messing around she got pregnant with our first daughter. We decided we would give "us" a serious go at it, since we both came from divorced parents. We new we didn't want our kid coming up with two separate families. I left the job where we met shortly after she got pregnant in order to take a higher paying job. A couple months After our daughter was born my father got terminally ill and was living in a different state. So 2-3 times a week I would make the 6 hour drive to go see him immediately after I got out of work. Then turn around and drive back a couple hours later to go back to work or to spend a few hours with my family. While I was logging all these crazy hours and miles one night I happened I log on to our computer and I found that she had been having a cyber affair with her ex. They never met up but she would send him pics and message him all day. I was to tired to and stressed with my dads situation and having a new baby. That I told her never to do it again or we were done. She cried and swore that she wouldn't. I let it be and moved on. Fast forward two years later and she's pregnant again this time with my son. But there were complications 2 weeks before he was due and we lost him. We immediately tried to have another baby and she got pregnant almost immediately. We had another beautiful baby girl less than a year after we lost our son. We were both on cloud 9 and madly in love. Or so I thought. After she went back to work she started bringing up my ex assistant manager in conversation from time to time (we're now in September 2014). So one day I confronted her and asked if she was having an affair with him. And of course like all cheaters she said no. Since I had no evidence I dropped the subject. About month later I happened to notice her receiving a message on her phone from a number with no contact info saying something vague like, of course I liked it. I wanted to find out a little more before i confronted her so I didn't bring it to her attention. The very next day our baby ended up in the ER then transferred to the P.I.C.U. and staying in there for a week. So I never investigated the message and I actually forgot about it because of our daughter's hospital visit. We both took time off but I only took 2 weeks off to care for our daughter. Because If I don't work the bills don't get paid. So I went back to work doing a physically demanding job working 12-13 a day. after a month my wife went back to work too. My daughter mean while has multiple doctors appointments a week now, but that is a whole other story. From time to time I noticed these random texts on her phone from her saying "can i borrow your keys to the wine room." And him saying "ok I'll be there right now" . But I couldn't prove anything yet because for her job she does actually have to borrow keys to the wine room from managers. It just seemed strange that she would only text this number to ask for the keys and not any other manager. I even checked our phone bill but they only text a couple times a month while at work. so i still didn't have the proof to bring them down. Fast forward to mid January my wife tells me my ex assistant manager found a new job and would be quitting soon. You could tell she wasn't happy about, but she wasn't sad either. He no longer works there and Then comes February 19th 2015. I just happen to log on to our phone provider to pay our bill and notice that all of a sudden she had texted that same number over 300 times in the last week having sent 20 pics messages too. But she always erases all the texts before i get home. when I see this I know I have her dead to rights. But I want concrete evidence so I download an app on to her phone that records all texts and pics taken. I want to be able to show her that I have the evidence. But I couldn't wait. I called the number and and asked the voice on the other end if this was .... and I said his name and he just asked who's this and I told him who I was and he just panicked said uuuh. uuuuuh. then hung up. I then called my wife at work and asked her was it merely flirting or did you have an affair w/the OM and she said there was no sex. I then asked her who it was and she said she couldn't tell me. I then asked her if it was because I knew the other person and she said yes. I then said it was .... after all and she said yes. and that they did indeed have sex. And I asked her if they ever used protection and she said no. and I then asked her if he finished inside of her she said no. I then asked her if she ever had him in her mouth and she said yes. I then asked if he finished her mouth and she said yes,but she didn't want him to, that he didn't warn her and just let it go. I hung up with her and called the OM back over and over and over and over again until he finally answered. And I asked him why and how long. He swore it only happened twice. Once in December and once in early February. I called him a few names and hung up in anger. My wife called me back multiple times before I decided to answer. Then came the water works and all the normal stuff, I don't like him, the sex was horrible, there's no emotions involved what so ever. It's just something that happened because it felt good to be wanted sexually again by someone else anyone else, it gave her a high she hadn't had in long time. Especially with all the tough times we've endured over the years blah blah blah. I asked where it took place and she said in the wine room downstairs at work. And that it had been going on since september 2014. But that he would put it in her for maaayybbbeee 2 mins then pull out because he was afraid someone would hear and catch them. so he only finished twice, so from what I can gather he only counted the 2 times he finished as the affair saying there weren't any other sexual encounters with her. The next day I drove to the OM's new job and he was scared when he heard my voice on the other end of the phone when I called his office to tell him I was outside. He came outside and started blaming her for everything and then said he was a sex addict and would've slept with anyone it just so happened my wife was there and willing. That it happened to him so he wanted to get his wife back. That he and his wife have an open relationship but she could only be with women and he could do his thing as long as he didn't get caught. That he cried that whole night and how he begged her to stop every time but she wouldn't and being a sex addict he couldn't resist. That since he left the old job he started going to church and blah blah blah but He stuck to his story saying it only happened twice once around c hristmas and once about 3 weeks ago. From text records I can gather it was 12/28/2014 and 02/1/2015. When I got home home I told her what he said and you could just see her start to upset but didn't say anything. I just told her had she been there she would've punched him just by the stuff he said about her. I didn't lay a finger on him because he's not worth going jail for and losing my kids. she then repeated her story that it happened a handful of times but that he indeed only finish twice.SO now I have a wife who I love who's cheated on me with someone I knew, who's leaving her job very soon to care for, a baby who has to go to so many different therapy sessions and specialists it would make your head spin and A soon to be 5 year old. I don't feel I can leave in good conscious or take my kids from there mother. I've stuck around for now but I haven't fully decided to if I can stick out for the run yet. Here it is 7 days later and I've only slept about 12 hours and eaten 3-4 times. I'm a wreck, I've only worked one day all week. I obsess about the affair, going through this emotional roller coaster. They both called it a playfair, saying there was no feelings involved, neither ever promissed each other anything or ever had a thought of leaving there spouse. What would've happened if I wouldn't have caught them. WOuld it have continued and gotten worse considering she was about to have more free time...idk
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Is this normal male behaviour or mean?
A little backstory. One the one hand my husband does not like me to use low-quality products. On the other hand he wants me to save money.
My husband has been lying to me before about having PTSD and about wanting to take me places we never went but I decided to forgive him. My husband trashed one of my evening dresses by washing it the wrong way because he wanted me to wear something else on one occasion... at least this is what I believe. He said it was an honest mistake.
He kept his promises about other things (such as searching for other homes because I don't like ours).
I definetly do love him so much and sometimes I am so proud of him. He treats me good and in the last weeks we reconnected and I was so happy.
So my husband did not like me to use the cheaper nail polish remover because it makes the nails ugly and decided to throw it away. I was angry about it and he went and bought the more expensive one. I told him never to throw away my things without asking me.
Okay... later I bought another cheap one and he was sort of offended blamed me of thinking we had no money and asked me to throw it away. I said I wanted to use it up and buy the better quality one later... yesterday I saw it was missing and asked my husband if he knew about that. He gave me an innocent look and a "No" as an answer. I could have sworn he told me the truth - his face was so innocent. Later I took out the trash. Guess what I found in the trash... Yes, thats right.
So I asked my husband "Did you throw it away". He answered "Oh... well... yes. I guess I did. Listen, I buy you a new one". He acted very sweet and sorry, tried to kiss me.
Now... he is really a bit sneaky, isn't he? I am not sure how to find out when he is telling me the thruth and when he isn't.
I mean... it is not that important... but obviously he thinks it is cool to tell me little lies.
Is it normal male behaviour to be sneaky that way? His intentions have been good. He wanted to use me a higher quality product.
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Yes, I know that I didn't want to post nymore... but really... he confuses me... or do I just make an issue out of nothing.
My husband has been lying to me before about having PTSD and about wanting to take me places we never went but I decided to forgive him. My husband trashed one of my evening dresses by washing it the wrong way because he wanted me to wear something else on one occasion... at least this is what I believe. He said it was an honest mistake.
He kept his promises about other things (such as searching for other homes because I don't like ours).
I definetly do love him so much and sometimes I am so proud of him. He treats me good and in the last weeks we reconnected and I was so happy.
So my husband did not like me to use the cheaper nail polish remover because it makes the nails ugly and decided to throw it away. I was angry about it and he went and bought the more expensive one. I told him never to throw away my things without asking me.
Okay... later I bought another cheap one and he was sort of offended blamed me of thinking we had no money and asked me to throw it away. I said I wanted to use it up and buy the better quality one later... yesterday I saw it was missing and asked my husband if he knew about that. He gave me an innocent look and a "No" as an answer. I could have sworn he told me the truth - his face was so innocent. Later I took out the trash. Guess what I found in the trash... Yes, thats right.
So I asked my husband "Did you throw it away". He answered "Oh... well... yes. I guess I did. Listen, I buy you a new one". He acted very sweet and sorry, tried to kiss me.
Now... he is really a bit sneaky, isn't he? I am not sure how to find out when he is telling me the thruth and when he isn't.
I mean... it is not that important... but obviously he thinks it is cool to tell me little lies.
Is it normal male behaviour to be sneaky that way? His intentions have been good. He wanted to use me a higher quality product.
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Yes, I know that I didn't want to post nymore... but really... he confuses me... or do I just make an issue out of nothing.
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It's complicated...or is it?
So theres a girl that i've known for a few years now, we just used to text each other a lot and then stopped for a while (no reason, just didn't speak) but now we talk to each other more in person as well as texting because she transferred colleges to the same one as me.
She's admitted that she likes me and finds me attractive and I like her too, however, she had a long distance boyfriend when I first got back into contact with her and after a while they split up (just before christmas because he was an idiot acting like a dick and did what he wanted all the time or so she tells me). Anyway, they got back together a few weeks ago and now I'm like: wtf do I do?We flirt with each other a lot but am I wasting my time with her? I think I already know the answer but I wanted some opinions/advice.
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Do girls get "excited" as well??
I hope you know what I mean by "excited". Basically I am aware that majority of teenage boys get "excited" a lot over boobs and ass and porn etc And this is one cause boys are mostly desperate in nature and two cause of their hormones and shiz. Its a pretty open thing that most teenage boys masturbate/sleep around (their not called sluts cause its a normal thing for them). But I was wondering do girls do it as well? I mean the reason why boys seem to do it more may be because girls never admit it? OR the fact when guys are "excited" it is very visible... if u know what i mean ;) But like is it normal for you girls as well to get "excited" sometimes.
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lool did i just say that... yes yes i did. I have been thinking about this is a lot since my sexual drive has decided to increase rapidly (over the course of a couple of months) and its becoming a problem. Especially since I am a person of innocence and plan to stay that way until I'm older. I'm 17 atm. So then I was wondering wait is it normal for a teenage girl to be this "excited" all the time or is it mainly a boy thing?
If you are not one of those teenage boys who do get "excited" then apologies for stereotyping but u gotta admit. Your species is pretty sex crazed.
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Emma watson or emma stone? Plus more
Rate these from best to worst in attractiveness and your reasons if you want
Emma Watson
Emma Stone
Dakota Johnson
Taylor Swift
Selena Gomez
Jennifer Lawrence
Katy Perry
Rihanna
Cara Delevingne
Kristen Stewart
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Cuckold marriages lot more common than you may think - Men are in fact monogamus
I read an article that said at least 75% of marriages are either cuckold or open. Cuckold meaning the husband allows his wife to have sex with other men or allows her to have mulitple boyfriends. I was reading an interesting article from a sex expert which described womens needs for multiple sexual partners and how they are by nature the sex that desires mulitple men while men are usually happy with just one woman. I'll link the article here, I suggest you all take a look it's a fascinating read and will change your concept on how we view men and women in todays society.
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Reasons, girls you would just look at a guy and smile?
Ok so I've known this girl for about a year now. We've got to know eachother, and get on well. I've noticed she's in the past couple of months just started to smile and grin a lot at me. She'll be looking at me and I'll look at her and we'll both just look at eachither and smile, until one of us looks away, other times she'll just look at me with a big grin on her face, I'm not even being funny or joking etc, she's just there smiling at me, so I just smile back until again one of us looks away. Another example I was reading a poster on the wall and I could see her in my eye line and she's looking at me and again with a massive smile on her face. Again I wasn't being or trying to be funny. She also acts daft sometimes and pulls daft faces at me etc.
i have no issue with her doing this, I just find it a bit weird? Girls, reasons she would do this?
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Is a serious relationship problem an extenuating circumstance for doing badly?
So these are the details - I've known my boyfriend since I was seven (obviously we were dumb kiddish friends then) and had been dating him from age 14 till 16. In the May of my GCSE year, he (he was 18) he passed away due to underage drug addiction and a subsequent overdose. It was quite a big tragedy for his school, and for me, hence, my academics suffered. I had taken 10 IGCSE subjects, and predicted 9A (the 10th subject was as a private candidate), but due to this I only managed to receive 5A (2A* in English and English Lit, 3As), 4Bs and one D.
I've taken a gap year to shake it off and am now approaching my AS Levels. I'm doing well in sixth form, and am predicted AAAA.
I don't want to get into Oxford, but a decent uni, but I'm a little worried because of the GCSE. My referee said she could write the circumstances, but I'm not sure if such a small problem could be considered as extenuating circumstances.
Thoughts?
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