I'll try and make it brief: Skip to the questions at the end if you don't want to read background. I'm Male btw.
I really like this girl I used to work with over the summer after University finished. She does a lot of travelling and I've never connected with another girl in this way before, I've liked girls but this girl I can't stop thinking about. She is perfect. I think she knows I like her and her talk a lot.
She has gone travelling around the world and my best friend wants to go travelling too now, also male. He asked me if I wanted to go on a tour of the same country in Asia as the Girl I like. I said yes, sounds good I'll do some research on tours (the kind they do for young people, you see a lot of the country and do different activities along the way). My friend then goes and tells the girl we are also going travelling to the same country. He then asks the girl if we can join her/or she says we should join her on her part of the trip.
He tells me we should join her trip. I ask her if that's cool, she says yes that's a great idea and she will ask her tour manager. She is traveling around the would with her BFF (girl) they go travelling a lot. I'm new to travelling and nervous of going whether it is with the girl I like or with just my best mate. I can only take 2-3weeks off my post grad job so cannot join the whole trip. My best friend might join them for a month or 2. (he has a girlfriend).
Here's the questions:
1. Do you think it seems weird or creepy to join the girl on her trip when she is travelling with her BFF.
2. Will awkward when over there because I'm new to this and she and friend might laugh at me being new/unsure of the customs accepted on these travelling tours?
3. What if her best friend does not like me?
4. Do I have to make some kind of move on her whilst over there. (we are staying in hostels, I'm a gentle man, my goal is not to just have sex with her, I want a relationship) but surely I have to show some kind of interest. How do I do this in a foreign culture and environment?
5. How do I approach the situation when she comes back home?
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