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Is it because I'm ugly?
The amount of times where they've glanced at me only to move on to more typical looking groups and individuals beggars belief. It seems clear to me that they do not want people to know that people like me go to their club.
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So i've posted on here quite a bit before asking for advice, this is a really long story but basically;
This girl i'm seeing, girlfriend or whatever, i don't even know what she is to me now, i've known her for 3 months, so a very short period, however I have fallen so hard for her that I'm really being hurt and its affecting me to the point I'm physically in pain.
So basically first 2 months, were amazing. It was cute, early relationship giddy phase, 2nd month we were sleeping together, it was going so well, then out of the blue suddenly she disappears..
She claimed that something had happened to her, and refused to tell me what it was. Ever since this everything changed, her whole personality changed, she told me it was "anxiety disorder" in the past she has been on medication like anti-depressants and had bi-polar disorder.
Now the most horrible part of this, is she refuses to kiss, touch and even struggles maintaining eye contact with me these days, it is so heartbreaking because at first I thought she had gone off me. And we argued, loads and loads and loads, so many arguments resulting in her crying and throwing me out or storming off. I've tried so hard with this girl but it's so difficult the no touching/kissing thing.
At first I thought it was an elaborate way to break up with me, but I don't know... I have no idea what even happened to her. She says she just "feels uncomfortable" and says things like " i couldn't kiss anyone right now" and it's really strange, very painful. I know if it was because she wanted to leave me shed have just left me already... we have exams, appearently she has this thing to deal with.. it'd be much easier for her to have just left me, but she hasnt and claims she still has interest, although admits the spark is dying in light of what's going on.
she's going away for 2 weeks, i'm still crazy about her, but for a whole month things have just been so ****, just constant her crying, me trying to make things better, but making them worse, and her not letting me kiss her or anything, it makes me feel a bit insecure not going to lie and I don't really feel that, girls not kissing me is not something I've had to deal with before, especially in a relationship.
What do I do? I can't call it quits because I'm crazy about her, and i don't know why I am, i wish I wasn't. She doesn't know I am, but I am, and I can't leave her. But this is ruining my life. Every time I try to ask her about the no kissing thing she gets so shut off and angry even.
We had a lovely date last night, the first nice one that didn't end up in an argument, but she still refused to kiss me at the end, and it was just so painful I don't know how I can deal with that again.... I can't help but think she has no interest, but she keeps going out on dates with me and she does say "if I had no interest do you really think i'd put myself through this, crying, getting upset, over you when I have so many other things that are more serious?"
What is going on, please help me out.
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Just wondering really.
And be honest, not just "the bigger the better" etc etc for lad points and what notSpoiler:ShowYou're not cool
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I'm 16 and still woefully single. I haven't held hands with a guy and I've never been kissed. My best friend is onto her THIRD boyfriend. I mean, seriously? I don't think I'm hideous but I'm not conventionally attractive either. For some reason, guys just don't show any interest in me. I get friendzoned a lot- they see me as 'one of the guys' simply because I'm pretty chill and apparently easy to hang out with. Sigh. Am I destined to be 'one of the guys' forever?
I normally don't really care about crap like this. It's just started to bug me recently and I'm not exactly sure why :/
Any advice?
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Hi,
Basically I have been very close to a girl for over a year now. We started of getting close into sixth form, and everyone presumed that we liked eachother and that we were going out, even the teachers suspected it. We joked occasionally that it felt like we were in a relationship, and it really did. We were speaking everyday at college, and then skyping on the weekend for hours. Anyway, against the advice of my mates and 'just doing it' and asking her out I waited. Eventually I went to university, and because I got on with her so well I never intended to lose contact, because if she was anything she was also my best friend (I'm not usually this emotional, but im anonymous so who cares :$ ). I've been at universitiy for a year now and we still keep in contact quite well. Shes met my parents, and I've met hers more than once, still introducing eachother as friends.
We agreed to go on holiday together this summer, just us two for a week or so. Anyway, the big twist is that she's coming to the same university as me. And since I find her really attractive, shes my best friend and I have so much fun around her, much more than any of the girls I have met at my university, I'm thinking of asking her out?
So basically what is the best way to ask her out, without making her feeling pressured or she has to make a decision on the spot, because I feel like we've been building up to this for so long, over a year. I'm thinking of 'just doing it' on holiday, I presume she'll be more relaxed then and it would be a better time of doing it. I think just going in for a kiss will clear things up? But anyway tell me if you think you agree
Thanks!
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you dont have to come if you dont want to
does it mean
we dont really want you to come but diddnt want to seem rude, please make some excuse and stay at home
or
you dont look like you want to come , we dont want you to feel pressured
cos i always assumed its the first but then thought mabey im being paranoid?
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Hi Guys/Girls,
So I posted this thread a few weeks back: http://ift.tt/1wJ2GlZ
Since then, when she was waiting at the checkout she turned back to my counter (and you have to purposely do it IMO, it's not something you nonchalantly do) and looked away when I looked back. She came to my counter again today, but with her Boyfriend (only found out today she has one) but the eye contact wasn't as intense, and infact it was a bit awkward. At times when i was serving her she'd look in my face and to the sky in a shy way if those of you who have liked someone if you know what I mean. I could just tell it was just so awkward. Even when she was walking with her Boyfriend, she was walking in front of him (IMO it says a lot, normally expect couples to walk side by side) btw, this isn't a sexist thing if a guy did it, I'd think he didn't really like his GF vis-versa.
My question is, what do i do? I honestly think she likes me, but she has a boyfriend! What does everyone else think?
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I miss having someone to
- share my life with
- cuddle and makeout with
- make happy
I know this probably isn't the best place (where is?) and I
sound desparate but just leave a message and I'll PM you back.
Advice is also welcome. I feel really lonely and want to enjoy my life more
whilst making someone else's life better.
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This sounds really pathetic but I barely know any guys at all. I haven't kissed anyone either.
I used to go to a small school where I had a group of nine best friends since primary who were all girls and I sat with them in all my lessons and never spoke to anyone else.
Then, I went to a large sixth form college of two and a half thousand people and still no-one paid any interest in me. Another excuse is that it was 70% ethnic and a lot of Muslims there were practically married off but still?!
Any advice or comments of what I should do "to get out there" would be appreciated before buy forty cats and become a lonely old women.
Another thing, two of the girls in my group (yes we're still all together) have lovely boyfriends so there is no excuses really, I must be doing something very wrong.
I have blonde hair, size eight, like Topshop, generally just pretty average, I wouldn't describe myself as weird or anything. I'm quite confident, have lots of female friends (none that are boys though as they seem to avoid me).
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