My divorce date is finally set (October) after 3 years of failing to salvage some kind of relationship from the BS we had created. I never cheated despite long-term sexless marriage and despite years of regular affair accusations from a very high-conflict partner.
But I've had enough now. I've mourned the marriage, and feel good about the divorce (the 2 boys do too, they'll be living with me). I intended to leave the marriage with my dignity in tact (i.e. no shagging on the side), but we're separated despite still living in the same house (I'm forced to find a house-rental for me & boys until judge forces STBXW to sell house in Oct).
So, is dating while separated 'cheating'? I'm not about bringing dates home to meet the kids (or the STBXW!), but dating, and of course, maybe sex.
Am I too desperate to get beck into it? Maybe common for some divorcees? I just cannot resist trying out a few dates and getting on with my life. Some fun, niceness, joking, giggles, etc.
But I've had enough now. I've mourned the marriage, and feel good about the divorce (the 2 boys do too, they'll be living with me). I intended to leave the marriage with my dignity in tact (i.e. no shagging on the side), but we're separated despite still living in the same house (I'm forced to find a house-rental for me & boys until judge forces STBXW to sell house in Oct).
So, is dating while separated 'cheating'? I'm not about bringing dates home to meet the kids (or the STBXW!), but dating, and of course, maybe sex.
Am I too desperate to get beck into it? Maybe common for some divorcees? I just cannot resist trying out a few dates and getting on with my life. Some fun, niceness, joking, giggles, etc.
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