Hello,
Basically, I've been with this guy officially only for a few weeks but known him a few months in which time we were seeing each but not officially. The first night we hung out he told me about his ex of like 5/6 years straight away and how it was a messy breakup. Anyway we work together so people in work have said how lovely he is and how his breakup really affected him (he nearly committed suicide but I'm not sure if there was something else wrong too).
Anyway this was only less than a year ago since they split up. His friends say he's like a different person and he seems so happy and stuff since meeting me which is nice, but about 3 weeks ago he started acting a bit distant.
He used to arrange things to do like we'd go to the cinema and stuff like that but he stopped making plans with me really, and became less interested in anything I guess. He just hasn't been the same. One of his friends I know said because of his depression he gets like it but then it passes, but my boyfriend told me the other day that he has been feeling down for a few weeks, about the same time I noticed the change.
Now, he doesn't seem that bothered about doing anything and he hasn't text me back since like 2:00pm. Sometimes we genuinely don't receive each other's texts because our phones just don't get them and then we receive the text like 3 weeks later - but I don't know if he got it or not today..
Anyway I still find it odd, and I want to ask him if he's seeing someone else or something. I've told him I'm here for him as he's obviously depressed and told him he should go to the doctor but he refuses for it being 'pointless'. I don't know what to do- I care about him loads and I worry about him, but I haven't seen him for 2 weeks (and I'm the one who invited him out) and know he's acting odd. Trouble is I don't want to turn his depression back onto me and make it sound like I'm just worried about myself. What should I do?
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