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Never kissed my girlfriend

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Well I've had a girlfriend for like 8 months now and ive never kissed her, is that weird? I've never kissed a girl before and I don't know how to and I have braces, wouldn't that make it awkward and weird if i was to (ive had braces the whole time we've been together£

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I want to be a house wife

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Just want a man to take care of me, and I do the house work.

Are there men nowadays into that? Because nowadays, men want a working woman :(

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Need to change but worried.

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Hi all,
This is something that has been bugging me the past few days.
I started university in 2014 ,however at that time I was going through a lot with my family .There was a period where I didn't talk to my family for months.As you can imagine ,I was down for quite a while and I gave up on everything.I spent the year alone and kept myself to myself.Emotions everywhere took over my life and I didn't want to associate myself with anybody.The biggest thing that I let go of in that time was my appearance.Pre-university I would get up early ,do my hair nicely ,do my makeup ,make an effort to look nice and presentable.I felt good about myself.However in the first year of uni (2014-2015) I was down Ivstopped doing all that.Kept my hair in a bun ,would wash it and bun it back .It was just horrible looking back.I wore jumpers, old oversized t-shirts and ripped trainers *sigh*.(Girls you'll know them days).
However this summer I had along think ,a good look at my life and realised how much of myself I neglected.
Now that I'm going back to uni ,I want to bring out the old me again-the girl who takes pride in her appearance and loves being around people.I managed to replace a lot of old clothes and mature my wardrobe.Bought a lot of things like blouses ,skirts and dresses even a handbag to carry to uni.Not to forget more makeup.
However there's a part of me that is scared of being judged.Silly I know.
I feel like people got used to me being this makeup less nerd with a massive ripped bagpack ,seeing a different me will be a complete shock.I don't even know why it bothers me but it does:/
Thoughts+Advice welcome :)

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DOCTORS

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Doctors are great--as long as you don't need them

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Am I an idiot?

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Okay I decided to meet up with my ex. I went along with a friend of mine. She's really close. We go for a movie and after me and my ex are supposed to get a train back home together. But guess what? He went along with my friend and he took her to a pub without me from like 10pm to morning. Please tell me what to do. Am so furious

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I value my friends more than my siblings, is that ok?

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I don't really feel any emotional bond with my siblings (2 sisters) while I do with my friends. I'm much more happier around my friends as well, they raise me up & my sisters can annoy me a lot. My parents believe that I should value my sisters more though as they're more likely to help out if I'm ever in a really desperate situation (which I don't quite agree with), Anyway...

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Guy I'm living with has a isue with me and the girls I'm seeing

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I have recently moved into a new shared house, I've recently finished university and about to graduate but I decided to stay in my university town as I have a lot of friends up here, my friends are mainly female that I meet in uni halls, through them, out and about etc

I am quite sexually active with 3 of them only casually, some I don't because we don't feel that way about each other or they have boyfriends. The girls tend only to sleep with guys they know well like me and other male friends.

So I met my new housemates earlier this week, 2 girls and a guy. The girls I don't have a problem with and are okay when I have girls round but the guy is a complete dick to me. I haven't done anything wrong to him, I asked the girls i'm living whats up with him, he said he doesn't like that i'm bringing girls round.

So when I next saw him I told him why do you care what i get up to, I go in my room if I have sex with one of them and we chill in the living room, I know them so its usually just the same girls and i'm not a user. I also said if you out and about, i'd help chat up a girl for him as a wingman in clubs if and cool hang around with him if wanted. He seemed okay with that so I thought he would be okay with it.

So just the other night friends around again and he comes back from wherever and he was so rude towards for no reason. He said that all the girls looked like prostitutes, there were male friends with us this time including a girl's boyfriend who wanted to follow him upstairs to have ago at him. I said just leave him so we left him alone.

We got talking about him and the girls told me that he's been messaging them on facebook to hook up with them. I have no problem what so ever if any of girls were interested in him or any other guy honestly I don't care, but he acts so creepy and disrespectful so obviously you would warn girls not go near him.

I don't know how to stop him acting like this. not just me but people I hang out with. I understand he may get less female attention than me and the other guys but there no need for his attitude towards us. I can literally see myself having a massive argument with him but I don't want to because I have to live with the guy.

would should i do?

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I want to be a house boy.

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I just want a man to take care of me, while I take care of the home.

I can cook toast and wash up, and I like making things pretty.

But...are men into that nowadays? It seems lately men look down on boys who don't provide financially :c

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Is cheating ok if her boyfriend was in her home country?

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And I met her on holiday?

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How to move on from regrets?

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When I went to Uni, my dad wasn't very well so I decided to stay at home to help look after him.

I really regret not moving away, I feel I've possibly missed so much, but I can't change it. My sister is off to uni and thankfully dad is better so she is going away. I feel very jealous but I know I have to get over it but don't know how.

I've had a few rough weeks so my regrets have been surfacing.

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Girls, would you feel aggrieved if guys didn't offer to pay on the first date?

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Say a guy asks you out on a date but when it came to paying the bills he wanted you to pay your share as well? Would that be ok with you? I'm just curious to know as if it makes a girl like you more then I'd be happy to pay for all of it, however I actually feel that "going dutch" is the fairest way personally.

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Awkward phone calls, relationships

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Me and my boyfriend call every night, and just to avoid any potential awkwardness, I make a list of 5-6 topics and just talk about those. I initiate pretty much every question, and keep the conversation flowing, he simply answers.

Today, I decided not to 'plan' topics ahead of our call, and thought I'd let him make the effort, which resulted in hardly any talking at all, just like an hour of silence. I'm not really sure what to do. It just feels like a big effort when we call and he doesn't try, yet suggests we call.

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Feminists Admit Females Are Shallow

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http://ift.tt/1imS4GT

women who are shallow about height:

Quote:

You can and perhaps should
choose to consider another type outside what you like before you think about it. Awareness in most things is typically a good thing, if for no other reason than that it expands your options. Dating is no exception.

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Should I dump?

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It's been frustrating me since we ever got together.

I work a hard schedule (60 hours a week, I pay for everything) and she just lays around all day and doesn't really do much (she only works for 10 hours a week part time).

Sex life hasnt been great, and I always end up cooking our meals when I come back from work. She has never cooked for me ever. I doubt she even knows how to cook, or stepped foot in the kitchen for that matter...

Personality wise, we hardly talk much and I pretty much avoid contact most of the time. It's getting to a point where I just dont love her anymore.

What should I do? we havent talked about it because im scared to.

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Scared to lose virginity - male

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I'm 21 and still a virgin and scared to do it. I had the chance with 6 girls so far and every time I've never 'got it up' from nerves so all I've done is other stuff with them. When I was 16 I wanted to do it but my gf wasn't ready and then we broke up and eventually it just came to the point where I didn't wanna do it - any advice on getting the first time over? I guess you can say besides the thought of having sex scaring me I'm also worried it's too small and I won't last long etc I tried alcohol but that just makes it harder to get up I heard

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Does he not love me as much as I do him?

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I feel like i have to initiate everything intimate between us, but its got to the point where he doesnt even say i love you back unless I say it first..

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