Briefly I am 35 she is 32. We have been married 10 yrs.
We have two kids 8 and 6yr old.
I have a history of compulsive gambling. She has stayed by my side throughout. Hoping that I can get well and every time I proved that I can mess everything up. This past time of her finding numerous loans and gambling activities it turned out to be the straw that broke the camel's back.(Jun 1) She asked me to leave so now I am living at my parents house. I do interact with her on a daily basis because of kids activities and logistics etc.
While we were married I obviously ignored all the signs and talks she would give me about us. I am learning the hard way that you don't know what you got until its gone. I love my wife very much. I need to get help. She has stated that she needs stability in her life and will be moving forward in her career and with purchasing her own home(we currently rent) etc. She needs to put herself first and find happiness.
She also says that she doesn't see a future for us. So my question would be is it that she doesn't see a future with me in my current state or at all?
Can we reconcile down the line when I am well?
I have a lot to make up to her, so I cant say it will be easy. She is one of the most caring people that I know.
This such a shame for me to realize this after so long. I hope I can get another chance
We have two kids 8 and 6yr old.
I have a history of compulsive gambling. She has stayed by my side throughout. Hoping that I can get well and every time I proved that I can mess everything up. This past time of her finding numerous loans and gambling activities it turned out to be the straw that broke the camel's back.(Jun 1) She asked me to leave so now I am living at my parents house. I do interact with her on a daily basis because of kids activities and logistics etc.
While we were married I obviously ignored all the signs and talks she would give me about us. I am learning the hard way that you don't know what you got until its gone. I love my wife very much. I need to get help. She has stated that she needs stability in her life and will be moving forward in her career and with purchasing her own home(we currently rent) etc. She needs to put herself first and find happiness.
She also says that she doesn't see a future for us. So my question would be is it that she doesn't see a future with me in my current state or at all?
Can we reconcile down the line when I am well?
I have a lot to make up to her, so I cant say it will be easy. She is one of the most caring people that I know.
This such a shame for me to realize this after so long. I hope I can get another chance
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