So a few years ago I was getting close to a girl I'd known a good few years. We'd admitted we liked each other and we started to get closer. But after so long she started accusing me of not giving her any attention and when I would message her first or put effort in, she accused me of being clingy.
This has stuck in my head ever since and I never know how to be around girls, because I know they like attention but at the same time they hate clingy guys.
I've recently got together with a girl who I'm really crazy about, but ever since we made it official, I have started to notice her talking less online, and I immediately start blaming myself thinking I've done something wrong. I won't deny that I am actually fairly clingy in situations like this but it's only because I care about them. But anyway the other day I messaged her saying she seems quiet lately, but she said she was fine and I told her I know we're not expected to talk like 24/7 per day as we would get on each other's nerves too much.
But now I'm quite worried to message her first in case she does feel I'm clingy but then I feel bad not messaging her because she might think I'm losing interest, and at the moment I really am stuck for ideas. What do I do?
Put the internet to work for you.
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