I just got married a month ago. Before that, we lived together over a year. During the year we lived together, I caught my significant other masturbating to porn a few times. Mind you I always go to bed before him and since he keeps a box of kleenex next to his side of the couch, I am guessing he does it a lot. I don't know why I ignored it but I did. We have been together for over three years but I noticed the last two years, we have sex maybe once every two months because he says he never is in the mood. He usually just likes it if I go down on him and then we have sex. No kissing or foreplay. I am never aroused and end up having painful intercourse which I then end by faking an orgasm so it can be over with due to the pain. I did this probably 90% of the time we had sex over the course of our relationship. Anyway, it's been a month since we have been married and I caught him again masturbating to porn. I told him that it bothers me because we rarely ha ve sex and when we do it usually last 5 minutes. He said he hates foreplay and just wants to f***. I said I need foreplay and he said he can't do that all the time, maybe 50%. Mind you we only have sex once or twice a month. What should I do? Should I be honest and tell him I have been faking it? Should we seek counseling?
Thank you. Happy New Year.
Thank you. Happy New Year.
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