So people think Im gay (You "look" gay)

Posting anonymously, and tbh I spose it shouldn't bother me *that* much, but I get people making references to me being gay, despite me being straight. They say words like "bend over" " I love you" etc... It has to be said, that the guys who say this *are* mainly guys and a bit chavvy I like to dress a bit smarter, and I generally like to take care of myself. I go to the gym, but don't really have that gym body :p I have a bit of fat, that I want to get rid of still! I tend to treat people with respect, regardless of gender, which is what these people don't seem to do, and girls have said things like "aww... you're so sweet, that's so sweet, you're a diamond in the rocks" etc... I suppose Im also a tad insecure about my own image - guys aren't meant to be insecure!, and I've asked girls here to "rate" us in the past, and to my surprise, though still possibly just trying to make me feel better, girls have said that I'm pretty attractive? Or like with this girl I talk to on fb(She's getting married soon), she mentioned how x was "fit" and I joked "Im not?" and she asked me to show one of my pics, and I linked her one, and she said "God you're hot" :$ and asked me if girls ask me out or not, and I was like "no :(" when she replied "Why you're really fit?" Just saying I have no romantic interest in this person, but just someone nice to talk to. Besides, she's getting married soon. I mean I don't consider myself so attractive but if I am, perhaps those guys see me as a threat? I don't know why, when I'm not the greatest with girls :D

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