My daughter is really angry w/ her STBX stepdad...

My daughter who is 15 and has had a horrible biological dad, (he has spoken to her in a year, is 13,000 behind in child-support etc) so my STBXH has been her seragent dad for 6 years. She loves and misses him...but she has been internalizing a lot of her feelings regarding his affair, the betrayal and abandonment, the separation and now me filing for divorce. D-Day was 12/8 and he moved out 12/11. She's an amazing young woman, and has been so wonderful and nurturing to me. Which makes me sad, that she has been taking care of me the past few weeks. To my point, she basically wants nothing to do with him. I told him They can still have a relationship if she is willing. But she in no certain terms told me "that's not my decision to make for her, she is angry & maybe if she gets over it in a few months she'll consider having a relationship with him" etc. I am sad that she is so angry, and I want her feelings to reflect "her true feelings", not feeling protective over me. They had a great relationship before he had his affair and I'd hate to see her lose him too! There is no chance of me working things out with him. I cannot look at him he makes me so sick. He threw away everything having a physical affair. But that's our issue not hers. I am just wondering what I should do. This has been a nightmare. Obviously for both of us. Posted via Mobile Device

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