Chastity devices for men

I posted a response to the (http://talkaboutmarriage.com/coping-...ml#post1371581) thread in the Coping with Infidelity forum, but now I'd dare say this diversion of the existing topic belongs more appropriately in the Sex in Marriage forum. ------------- In a bit of good news/bad news, I really don't think these devices are, in fact, intended for cheating men. On the contrary, I actually think a completely trusting relationship would be pretty much necessary before a man would let his wife lock him up for this kind of play. But if you do trust your wife, and enjoy sexy play with her, letting her tease you over a longer period of time than just one day is, in my recent experience, highly erotic. It can be mutually bonding and kinkily playful and fun, splendidly empowering for a woman and unceasingly arousing for her man. However I don't think that temporarily delegating this power to his wife requires that a man have a submissive nature... just very trusting. :D The only few changes chastity will necessarily enforce on the man are (enforced) patience and a non-stop simmering arousal that is singularly focused on his wife and the key she is holding. But otherwise a man locked in a chastity device can remain masculine and strong and dominant, or whatever he naturally is in an unlocked state. And he can also be confident that wh en his wife unlocks him for sex, it's because she really wants him inside of her, and not for some passionless dutiful sex, and that when she unlocks him, he'll be very ready for her, and his orgasm will be unquestionably worth the wait. I found this link that attempts to explain, from both the man's and woman's point of view, why a chastity device can be exciting and desirable. Kinky? Uh, sure. Fun? Um, yeah. Keyholder : Why are men interested in chastity? Keyholding Guide

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