We got married in September 2014 and I thought our life's were great, I had 100% trust in my Husband and faith in us and in our future.
In early November my husband lost his errection which happened now and again and I never thought anything of it.
About the 8th Dec I noticed a difference in my husband, he was secrative with his phone and calls and didn't want to take it with him when he went out and also left his phone in his coat most of the time, this was unusual for my husband as he would always put it on the side. He become distant and not very interested in me. So when I asked him about it we had a major row and he made me feel really guilty saying he married me because he loved me and would never do anything to hurt me like that and that he had done everything for me and my children and how could i even think so little of him.
On my birthday 21 Dec I had a message from a women on google saying my husband has been contacting her and messageing her and talking to her and she said this had been going on since the beginging of december, when I confronted my husband at first he denied it then eventually told the truth. He said it was because he was worried because he lost his errection. He said he never met her and it was only ever over the phone with sex text, chat and messages.
I said that I didn't understand why he done this as he had the problem in early november once and now and again before that but I just thought it could have been stress at the time and didn't see how talking to another women would help as he never had a problem when he masterbated, just when he had sex, and I told him that i beleived that he did meet her, but he just denied it.
I decided our marriage was worth fighting for and all seemed to be going ok exept for the last 6 weeks, when ever we try to have sex he looses his errection. I asked him to stop watching porn to see if this would help and he said he would be nothing changed, allthough he tells me he doesn't watch it, I know he does.
I really don't know what to do anymore, My husband doesn't want me to tell anyone about our problems we have had since December but I feel like im breaking inside, i really don't know what to do for the best and have no one to talk to about this.
When I try to see if me and my husband can sort this out we always seem to argue about it and he says that he cant see why i have a problem with him watching porn. Although I told him I don't mind him watching it, I just want to see if him stopping watching it and masterbating so oftern will make our sex life better, he always just lies about watching it.
I have told my husband that when he looses his errection it makes me feel like he just isn't interested in me sexually he just tells me that its not me and doesn't know why it happens but then persists in saying that he doesn't have a problem when he watches porn and needs to relive himself some way.
Please Please could someone give me some advice as I really would like our marrage to work as it hasn't even been 6m
In early November my husband lost his errection which happened now and again and I never thought anything of it.
About the 8th Dec I noticed a difference in my husband, he was secrative with his phone and calls and didn't want to take it with him when he went out and also left his phone in his coat most of the time, this was unusual for my husband as he would always put it on the side. He become distant and not very interested in me. So when I asked him about it we had a major row and he made me feel really guilty saying he married me because he loved me and would never do anything to hurt me like that and that he had done everything for me and my children and how could i even think so little of him.
On my birthday 21 Dec I had a message from a women on google saying my husband has been contacting her and messageing her and talking to her and she said this had been going on since the beginging of december, when I confronted my husband at first he denied it then eventually told the truth. He said it was because he was worried because he lost his errection. He said he never met her and it was only ever over the phone with sex text, chat and messages.
I said that I didn't understand why he done this as he had the problem in early november once and now and again before that but I just thought it could have been stress at the time and didn't see how talking to another women would help as he never had a problem when he masterbated, just when he had sex, and I told him that i beleived that he did meet her, but he just denied it.
I decided our marriage was worth fighting for and all seemed to be going ok exept for the last 6 weeks, when ever we try to have sex he looses his errection. I asked him to stop watching porn to see if this would help and he said he would be nothing changed, allthough he tells me he doesn't watch it, I know he does.
I really don't know what to do anymore, My husband doesn't want me to tell anyone about our problems we have had since December but I feel like im breaking inside, i really don't know what to do for the best and have no one to talk to about this.
When I try to see if me and my husband can sort this out we always seem to argue about it and he says that he cant see why i have a problem with him watching porn. Although I told him I don't mind him watching it, I just want to see if him stopping watching it and masterbating so oftern will make our sex life better, he always just lies about watching it.
I have told my husband that when he looses his errection it makes me feel like he just isn't interested in me sexually he just tells me that its not me and doesn't know why it happens but then persists in saying that he doesn't have a problem when he watches porn and needs to relive himself some way.
Please Please could someone give me some advice as I really would like our marrage to work as it hasn't even been 6m
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