So, to introduce myself, I am a 33 y/o recently divorced father of 1. My previous marriage ended for reasons I am still unclear about since I was the one who wanted to be in it - even though she was unfaithful. It was a 10 year marriage / 15 year relationship and I truly was in love with her. I dated one girl for a couple of months and it was not a good relationship so I decided to take a few months and just get myself whole again. I started playing and coaching sports, going to the gym, spending a lot of quality time with my son, etc...
... so this new girl comes into my life when I was not really looking and we started talking and I started to have pretty strong feelings for her, but certainly didn't think much of it being still very new, and not having an incredibly strong physical attraction initially. And now, I literally cannot stop thinking about her. Trying to figure out where and when I can see her again. It's wonderful, because I never thought I would have this experience again that I once did with my ex. But, I'll be honest, I don't know what to think. My ex was my first and only... I don't know what these feelings mean, or why are they so powerful. I was good alone... and now I feel sick to my stomach when I can't see her. I don't want to rush into another relationship, but she is really in it and so am I. We both have kids, but are keeping them out of it until we feel like we will be a mainstay in each others' lives. I just don't know what to do to curb these feelings a bit without making her fe el I am not interested.
She is already talking long-term, and it's not a putoff at all, but she was recently divorced too because of a cheating spouse.
... so this new girl comes into my life when I was not really looking and we started talking and I started to have pretty strong feelings for her, but certainly didn't think much of it being still very new, and not having an incredibly strong physical attraction initially. And now, I literally cannot stop thinking about her. Trying to figure out where and when I can see her again. It's wonderful, because I never thought I would have this experience again that I once did with my ex. But, I'll be honest, I don't know what to think. My ex was my first and only... I don't know what these feelings mean, or why are they so powerful. I was good alone... and now I feel sick to my stomach when I can't see her. I don't want to rush into another relationship, but she is really in it and so am I. We both have kids, but are keeping them out of it until we feel like we will be a mainstay in each others' lives. I just don't know what to do to curb these feelings a bit without making her fe el I am not interested.
She is already talking long-term, and it's not a putoff at all, but she was recently divorced too because of a cheating spouse.
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