I am wanting to enter into a fitness bikini competition. H says he thinks I will start to look too masculine if I take it that far. I tried to explain to him and show him pics of the bikini fitness vs bodybuilding, but he still thinks it's too much muscle for a female. He said the ladies are supposed to be soft. I am so confused by dudes right now it's not even funny. Are we supposed to be fit? Fluffy? what?! I know it depends on the guy but you hear many guys talk about how they are really attracted to fit women. I know my H looks at fit women all of the time, so how could he consider me too masculine if I choose to do it?
To me, there is a sense of accomplishment in seeing how I can change my body. Just knowing that I can take myself from semi-fit to baboomtastic makes me feel like I can accomplish anything. It will also help me gain some much needed self confidence!
Not that our relationship is super right now, but I don't want to go doing things that are going to make him look at me and go "buuhh" . I am not sure if I can add a pic of a bikini fitness model without breaking any rules, but I can say they are a lot smaller than the bodybuilding females. I see them as fit not masculine.
So, men can you please chime in on how much is too much?
To me, there is a sense of accomplishment in seeing how I can change my body. Just knowing that I can take myself from semi-fit to baboomtastic makes me feel like I can accomplish anything. It will also help me gain some much needed self confidence!
Not that our relationship is super right now, but I don't want to go doing things that are going to make him look at me and go "buuhh" . I am not sure if I can add a pic of a bikini fitness model without breaking any rules, but I can say they are a lot smaller than the bodybuilding females. I see them as fit not masculine.
So, men can you please chime in on how much is too much?
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