I'm here to ask for some advice due to the fact I feel I've run out of options. Short summary: My husband lies to me constantly...about everything no matter how large or small. The problem I'd like to bring up, however, is that it seems he cannot be faithful to our marriage. It started about 2 years ago I found out he had been looking at porn every chance he got. That was bad enough to me because I watched it tear my parents apart. That wasn't the end. Shortly thereafter I found out he was visiting dating sites, although he claimed he hadn't contacted anyone. I found out that was a HUGE lie. He was on so many dating sites, and talked to so many women I couldn't tell you the number if I wanted to. Then he began to pay for the dating sites instead of sticking with the free ones. Later on he started giving these women his phone number, sending nude pictures etc. He has a bad habit of "going to the store" and staying gone for 12+ hours. I caught him at the ba r waiting to meet someone there. He left last November to go for a ride...and I didn't see him again for a week...I had no idea where he was..no contact at all. So that being said...it seems to me none of it has stopped...including the lying. Honestly, it just tears me apart even to find him looking at women online...even if it's just pictures. I've told him how it bothered me...a long time ago. I told him why it was a problem. It doesn't seem to help. I've tried being patient, I've tried being more sexual and even trying things I will NEVER be comfortable with. I don't know what to do. I want to save my marriage, but at this rate, with the infidelity and deceit I don't think it looks too good. I think its also important to say, I want nothing from him I cannot give back. I'm completely faithful, and happy to be. Can anyone help me?
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