Why do some women love lingerie and others hate it?

I know that it is different strokes for different folks, but this is a serious question. First, if you read other posts, my wife and I are rocky as hell. She is "trying" which means she is having sex more frequently, but that is about it. She doesn't initiate, she doesn't take control, she doesn't care about foreplay for me. One issue throughout our marriage has been lingerie. I love it, always have, always will. I like all of it, teddies, thigh highs, corsets, you name it. The more colorful the better. I know that men are more visually stimulated, but that is me. My wife absolutely refuses to wear lingerie. I know she is a bigger woman, but that doesn't bother me. I think she looks good in it and since I am the only one seeing it (supposedly) isn't that what is important? I don't need it all the time, but once in awhile would be a pleasant surprise - and a real turn on. Yeah, I get the whole comfort thing, but the lingerie can come off, too. Also, what turns you one more than someone else who is completely absorbed in you and your pleasure? I have tried and tried to get her to wear it. We even shopped on line together and she picked it out. She wore the outfit once and hasn't since. Are there any ladies out there who used to hate lingerie and now don't or any ladies out there who don't like it but will wear it for their husband from time to time. I would appreciate the advice.

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