Should we break up?

Here is the millionth 'should we break up' thread, but please give me all the advice you can everyone. I am basically going to list the good things about our relationship, and then the bad. Good: Loves me more than anything, more than anyone else probably ever will. We have quite a lot in common. She is very attracted to me. She is compromising and is willing to do what I want quite a lot. She is very caring. Her and I can sometimes get along extremely well. We do have a lot of fun together. Bad: I feel bored, constrained, held back. We are on different levels intellectually, I am a university graduate and she is very non-academic and will not talk about anything like that. While I am attracted to her, after 5 years I find myself looking at other girls more and more. She can be extremely controlling. I can never get a break from her. She doesn't like many of my friends. She doesn't like me having a life outside of her. She won't build herself a life outside of me. She is extremely reserved, not at all adventurous, whereas I would like to be more spur of the moment. She demands far too much attention. She can be extremely 'bitchy' which I absolutely hate. Our interests are different in that I still want to be 'young' whereas she wants to be more 'old.' We are on the verge of making more long-term commitments now too, and on one hand this does make me happy, it also concerns me greatly and is quite a depressing thought as I am going to have to accept a far less interesting life from now on. Let me know what any of you think anyway

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