| ...well, kind of. When my H and I started dating, I had what I would say is a medium-high drive; we were having sex probably 2x a week. Now it's maybe 2x/month on a good month. I can list all of the things going wrong in our relationship that leads me to not feeling as amorous, but I think the majority blame lies on me: sometime in the three years since we met my drive has changed. He doesn't vocalize it but I think my husband feels like I "bait and switch"ed him. I contribute it mainly to BC; I'm on the Mirena IUD and have noticed that it seems to make me somewhat moody and less interested. But, since last time we tried just condoms as BC we ended up miscarrying I'm wary of going back to that being our only form of BC. I wasn't on BC when we met. So barring getting rid of the BC, I know I have to try and initiate more. Once we're in the act I'm a more than willing partner, and I love sex with my H, it's just getting there that's difficult for me mentally. I should probably add that he has been making more of an effort to be sweet/responsive/work with my Love Language. He's not perfect but he's definitely putting forth effort. Is there anyone else that has this problem, and if so, how did you manage? | |||
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