I was in deep relation with my girlfriend for 3 years, I live and work in Canada and she is in India, due to family mismatch, my parents didn't agree for our marriage. In last 2 years I came to India 3 times only to resolve our issue, but my parents were so strong enough in their talks and their smart moves didn't let me move forward.
I came to India again 4th time last month, they extremely pressurized and emotionally tourchered me to marry a girl of their choice, I cried and fought a lot but my parents way so selfish for their ego, respect and society. I married a girl to their choice last month and in few weeks my wife came to know about my past.
When I returned from India to Canada last month, I spoke and regretted to my girlfriend for what ever happened, I explained her the whole situation and she said if I can divorce my wife, she is very much willing to marry me and ready to wait for me. We both were in so much love with each other and I asked her to wait for a month, while I discuss to my wife. We cried a lot with the feeling of love and in hope we will fix up things quickly, when she left me at Airport.
But suddenly, in last week or so my girlfriend's attitude changed, she has started ignoring me, she says I did everything for my parents respect and never took care for her and there is no guarantee for success even if I come to resolve this matter again. She saw my wife's Facebook profile where she posted our marriage pics and my girlfriend was so mad at me. My girlfriend's attitude has changed a lot in a week's time and I can sense she does not have anymore interest in me. Her family was so happy with me before my marriage but now they also doesn't support her anymore in keeping any relations or talks with me. I asked her to wait till February 28th as I am coming again, first she agreed and then said now there is no point to come as nothing can be done now since her parents are so angry to me.
My parents keeps calling my ex-girlfriend and her parents and abusing them even after they married me with girl of their choice. Finally my ex-girlfriend's family made her mind and realised that my parents would never accept her. I can't live without my ex-girlfriend. Today I am in misery situation and my wife has identified that, she says she will support me because she can't see me crying and dying situation all time and most importantly she needs meaningful relations.
I am very sensitive and emotional person. I have lost my smile, my happiness, my relations, my love and passing through a very tough time, I feel my happiness lies only in my girlfriend as I love her my heart out for 3 years and she doesn't want to comeback and major reason is my parents, but it seems she wants to walk away from my life and many times we made break ups, but finally when we met even for 1 day, we forgot rest of the world.
I do understand she might be more stronger than me and may move on easily, but I made misery of my life by marrying a girl who wasn't my first choice and may she might feel the same pain when she will face. Is she facing same pain right now as I have been passing through ?
I may sound so stupid and selfish person, but my circumstances today are very difficult.All I need is advice, Is there anyway I can get my ex-girlfriend back in my life ? I am in dying situation today and miss her every moment.
I came to India again 4th time last month, they extremely pressurized and emotionally tourchered me to marry a girl of their choice, I cried and fought a lot but my parents way so selfish for their ego, respect and society. I married a girl to their choice last month and in few weeks my wife came to know about my past.
When I returned from India to Canada last month, I spoke and regretted to my girlfriend for what ever happened, I explained her the whole situation and she said if I can divorce my wife, she is very much willing to marry me and ready to wait for me. We both were in so much love with each other and I asked her to wait for a month, while I discuss to my wife. We cried a lot with the feeling of love and in hope we will fix up things quickly, when she left me at Airport.
But suddenly, in last week or so my girlfriend's attitude changed, she has started ignoring me, she says I did everything for my parents respect and never took care for her and there is no guarantee for success even if I come to resolve this matter again. She saw my wife's Facebook profile where she posted our marriage pics and my girlfriend was so mad at me. My girlfriend's attitude has changed a lot in a week's time and I can sense she does not have anymore interest in me. Her family was so happy with me before my marriage but now they also doesn't support her anymore in keeping any relations or talks with me. I asked her to wait till February 28th as I am coming again, first she agreed and then said now there is no point to come as nothing can be done now since her parents are so angry to me.
My parents keeps calling my ex-girlfriend and her parents and abusing them even after they married me with girl of their choice. Finally my ex-girlfriend's family made her mind and realised that my parents would never accept her. I can't live without my ex-girlfriend. Today I am in misery situation and my wife has identified that, she says she will support me because she can't see me crying and dying situation all time and most importantly she needs meaningful relations.
I am very sensitive and emotional person. I have lost my smile, my happiness, my relations, my love and passing through a very tough time, I feel my happiness lies only in my girlfriend as I love her my heart out for 3 years and she doesn't want to comeback and major reason is my parents, but it seems she wants to walk away from my life and many times we made break ups, but finally when we met even for 1 day, we forgot rest of the world.
I do understand she might be more stronger than me and may move on easily, but I made misery of my life by marrying a girl who wasn't my first choice and may she might feel the same pain when she will face. Is she facing same pain right now as I have been passing through ?
I may sound so stupid and selfish person, but my circumstances today are very difficult.All I need is advice, Is there anyway I can get my ex-girlfriend back in my life ? I am in dying situation today and miss her every moment.
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