well he didn't exactly laugh but he did metaphorically slap me in the face.
So it's Valentine's Day and I want to do something nice for him so I got and buy some nice underwear. Then on the big day I tell him to go get me a drink from downstairs and then when he comes up im wearing the underwear. When he sees me in the lingerie he doesn't really react... So I ask him whether he likes his present and he replies it's nice but he prefers me natural (ie naked)..... Now before doing this I had been so nervous not because I have body issues but because I was worried (I have quite bad anxiety about everything) that something like is would happen, so as you could imagine I was really quite upset but I wouldn't let my bf see this.
After this I spoke to my boyfriend and he said he was really sorry and that he gets that he completely under reacted but that he had been drinking (had a whole bottle of white wine to himself) and that he got a bit body conscious himself when he saw me.
My problem is is that I still feel awful whenever I see that lingerie or that incident is brought up... It really brings me down and makes me feel so unsexy and URGH. What should I do? Am I overreacting?
Put the internet to work for you.
No comments:
Post a Comment