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Hey guys. I'm 17, male and my social skills with the opposite sex are... well, not there. I'm not an unattractive guy admittedly. I've had girls come onto me before, I've kissed girls, I've dabbled at other 'activities' at a minimal level but still I can't seem to talk to girls. It just doesn't happen. If I go to a gathering or a party I'm the type of guy who sticks with his mates because the party's full of girls and when one talks to me my sense of humor disappears, I'm super careful at what I say and I try not to look them in the eye. I get really anxious and I must come across as the most inconfident guy going which is a big turnoff. It makes me feel so weird, awkward and left out as a teenage lad. So I don't really go to parties or gatherings anymore regardless of how much I'm asked.
With girls all my mates are either taken with beautiful girlfriends in a cushy relationship or are getting sex whenever they want. But with me it's a different story. I've never had sex or even a relationship.
What do I do because for the last year I've been feeling lost and I feel like I need to fix this to really enjoy life more than I ever have. Sounds a bit extreme but I really do feel like the lack of affection and confidence is getting the better of me. Even my parents say I need a girlfriend and it could help put things into perspective seeing as I haven't been my best in a long time due to lots of stress and I actually got physically ill from it.
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