Hi,
I have spent 6 years struggling to accept my sexuality, and I finally did a year ago aged 23. Since coming out, I had a pretty horrible mental breakdown and have had months of psychotherapy to clear out all my demons and fears of my sexuality. I have only been on one date in the last year.
I've started texting a guy from Tinder who I seem to like a lot. We are going on a date next week. He has been talking about sex over text, and I am nervous about telling him I am a virgin. I'm 24 now and I am so inexperienced. I am worried that I will scare him off with my lack of sexual experience.
What shall I do? Do I lie and pretend I'm not a virgin? Do I just meet some random person first so I know what to expect, and don't scare off the guy I like? We seem to have a lot in common, but I'm so worried that I'm going to put him off with my lack of experience. Also, I have not yet even groomed my behind properly, if you know what I mean. So that is another thing playing on my mind, and there's such little advice on the internet for men about how to carefully remove hair!
Both of these anxieties, plus the fact that I'm not in my best physical shape right now, are really bothering me. If anyone has any advice please share.
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