Hi, last Sunday my girlfriend broke up with me, stating that she doesn't know for sure if we're meant to be together in the future after being together a year, I'm 23 she's 20 ... I'm still absolutely devastated...
The worst thing is we never argued ( have minor silly disagreements) have similar interests, cared deeply about each other. She said she can see us having a house together in the future and on the other hand she can see us not working.
She said I did nothing wrong and couldn't have been a better boyfriend, but she said instead of taking a break she said she doesn't want to be in a relationship ATM with me, she's said she doesn't want me to put my life on hold as it isn't fair ... Basically this is her reasoning from a text she sent "I wish I knew what I wanted for definite too! You have given me everything, you've done nothing wrong, and I still don't know if I'm meant to be with you...that's what worries me. I don't need to be alone, I just don't want to be in a relationship with you at the moment and I know we'll miss each other so was just putting it out there to meet in 2 weeks, but I understand that would be hard for you so you obz don't have too. I know you don't deserve to be kept on hold and I'm not doing that. But I just know that I might realise I've made a massive mistake and it might be too late by then, you'll have moved on/don't want to be with me...but I feel its a risk I need to take and if its meant to be it will be, and I know you don't believe in that stuff but I do so please respect that. I didn't want to go on a break, I don't really understand them"
Even of its a 1% chance I am going to fight for her and if that means let her be alone I am willing to.. A lot of people have said move on, cut contact, plenty more fish in the sea but I couldn't even think of having another woman in my life. She did say a small factor was the fact that my mother and I do not get on a lot and I think she feels that she controls me ... She feels that's a small detail but I think it's bigger than she thinks... She has also stated how she's worried about after uni and she's stressed about her uni work load...
sorry for the length!
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