I'm a guy 23 years old and I think I'm "suffering" from obsessive masturbation and porn addiction. On a day when I don't have much to do, I can masturbate even over 10 times sometimes. Minimum is every morning and evening..
I also watch a lot of porn and really go to great lenghts to find the sickest possible stuff out there for extra stimulation, always something completely different. I think I might have an addiction to some degree, but I often masturbate to my own fantasies in my head too.
When I have real sex, ONS or with girlfriend, I don't really enjoy the sex that much, or as much as I'd hope, and sometimes if I find it hard to orgasm I just think about my own fantasies or things I've seen online.
I made a thread a few months ago here asking if quitting masturbation makes sex more enjoyable. I was living with my gf then and completely quit it and it made a MASSIVE change to my sex life - sex was really enjoyable and didn't feel like an athletic performance anymore.. i even felt like coming too quick sometimes which is very unusual for me :$.
Now there is still the mental side.. I know i can quit ****ing (<- lol why is this completely normal act censored??) when I'm staying with my girlfriends.. we are in a long distance relationship.
But would completely quitting watching porn make sex more enjoyable mentally? Would not seeing pictures of naked women make seeing one more special in real life? I think one of my main issues is that I watch very sort of extreme porn and get aroused by it, so when I'm in the situation of having normal sex it doesn't feel like much.
Thanks!
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