Let me first start by saying we have been married for 9 years. We have two children together under age 9. He had three coming into the marriage now, 25, 22 and 16 and one i put through rehab. My parents are very finically helpful, cars..gas money, clothes for our two children, they don't want to be any longer.
He has now stated that when we move into a larger home, even though he is making more money, he will withdraw all finical support ( it is 800 right now a month for food and kids) that feeds a family of 6 most days, and anything extra for the children. This statement means that caring for our two children is entirely my burden, as well as feeding them. Is it horrible that I think this feels like just another reason for him to hide away money?
I have no family here, no support system. It is rare that there are friends or families that seem to be supportive of our life after they find out he has older children, and people don't have time. I have no sitters etc.
Please do not suggest finical peace university...
In a marriage at what point does finical withdraw mean - emotional withdraw, how to handle this?
He has now stated that when we move into a larger home, even though he is making more money, he will withdraw all finical support ( it is 800 right now a month for food and kids) that feeds a family of 6 most days, and anything extra for the children. This statement means that caring for our two children is entirely my burden, as well as feeding them. Is it horrible that I think this feels like just another reason for him to hide away money?
I have no family here, no support system. It is rare that there are friends or families that seem to be supportive of our life after they find out he has older children, and people don't have time. I have no sitters etc.
Please do not suggest finical peace university...
In a marriage at what point does finical withdraw mean - emotional withdraw, how to handle this?
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