Hi,
I am a 25 year old guy who works in a Software Analyst in an IT company. In the workplace, I happen to beside a woman who is 35 years old who is also our "manager".
I can say that in the office, people look up to me as someone who people can count on. I like my work so much and I don't even think of finding new work right now.
However recently, I feel some kind of "crush" or "love" (I really don't know) toward the 35 year old "manager". In fact, I can't stop thinking of her, and this has taken some amount of concentration toward my work. Everytime I arrive home, I always take a look on what is happening in her life by taking a look at her facebook. On some occasion, she offered me a ride home because my place is near her place. Because of the fact that she made this offer one time, sometimes, I would ask her what time she would be leaving the office so that I could have again the "free" ride toward home (in the hope of getting close to her). And in the car, we usually engage in some small talk.
I know in myself that my feeling toward her has somewhat elevated. I think I'm in love with her. And I am afraid that it is an inappropriate kind of love because…
[1] She is my manager …
[2] She is 10 years older than me….
How I wish I can get over this feeling/situation..
I am really thinking of resigning in order to avoid being depressed in this situation. (Despite the fact that I still like my work)
Will you guys help me out??? J
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