This isn't the first time. Been married almost 15 years (very rocky-all of them) and have been telling him for years when he ignores my birthday or Valentine's Day or Mother's Day, it hurts. I tell him I don't need gifts but we have 2 girls and he could do SOMETHING. Like help the girls make homemade cards for me or let's all go out for a milkshake together or bowling. Instead he ignored me all day and watched tv and played video games as usual. The kitchen piled with dirty dishes he didn't do (though he made new ones!). They're still there. I was sad (and had a headache all day) so I didn't make dinner and he didn't bother to either (never does). I know they all knew what day it was, but he's always modeled for them that it's okay to treat me like I don't mean anything. (Before bed my younger daughter did give me a picture she drew in art class and saved for me.) Am I wrong to be upset that this happens every freaking special day? I'm honestl y ready to throw in the towel, I'm just so tired of feeling so empty.
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