OK, This is the first time I have posted to any forum. My husband would say I am complaining when I say we never do anything fun. My opinion is he has these goals and works so hard that he never wants to go out. I honestly cannot remember the last time he asked me to do something fun. I ask him all the time and he refuses. I have resorted to doing things with others which is fine, except I wish he was with me sometimes. It feels like we live separate lives. He'll do a couple family things but usually complains about it. Most of the time he is ok with me going unless it is to go out to a bar with friends (couples & singles) to listen to a band, dance and have a few drinks. I LOVE dancing! His reason is that he doesn't want me drinking and driving. He quit over 10 years ago, so you would think if he felt that way he would drive me. He is hard of hearing and does not like the loud music so he will not go for that reason. One of these friends is suppose to b e his best friend. He does get jealous sometimes when I go places without him. It is just so frustrating that at this point in our lives when our children are grown up that we should not be doing more fun things together. He keeps me so busy helping him that annoys me. I know I don't have to, but he makes me feel bad if I don't. In addition to doing the same with his kids. It's like people ignore his phone call sometimes cause they know he is only calling to ask them to do something for him. I understand that he has these goals but I have always felt that you work 6 days a week and rest on the 7th. I need that as like a reward for working hard. I retired over 20 years ago early but work part time still. I have always been the only one that did any shopping, cleaning & cooking which is another aggravation to me. I know I am guilty of complaining sometimes for sure. Like when he comes in with grease on his shoes and walks through the whole house white carpet and all and then expects me to clean it up. Well, got to go now but will say more later, cause I have to go run an errand for him, along with whatever else I need to do. Thanks for any help. I am not unhappy with my life but I am unhappy with my relationship with my husband.
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