My partner and I have had our fair share of disagreements.
Why does my partner say something that upsets me then lies about why he said it. /then minimises what he said and says I overreact. Then minimises my feelings Then apologises insincerly then tells me the truth about it then goes back and lies about it! Then he puts it in context with 'the really important stuff in life'. Then blames the whole thing on me and says I need Anger management - even though he admits he is the stressed one daily and I only blow up when something gets my goat!
Its like he doesnt want to confront why he behaves like this??
This barage of events puts me on an emotional rollercoaster from confusion to rejection to frustration to anger to guilt to saddness
Argh I'm confused
Why does my partner say something that upsets me then lies about why he said it. /then minimises what he said and says I overreact. Then minimises my feelings Then apologises insincerly then tells me the truth about it then goes back and lies about it! Then he puts it in context with 'the really important stuff in life'. Then blames the whole thing on me and says I need Anger management - even though he admits he is the stressed one daily and I only blow up when something gets my goat!
Its like he doesnt want to confront why he behaves like this??
This barage of events puts me on an emotional rollercoaster from confusion to rejection to frustration to anger to guilt to saddness
Argh I'm confused
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