My friend has been with her boyfriend for about a year. We're all on the same course at university.
When they first got together last year, there was a lot of drama with this other girl from the year below us who was interested in him and who kept texting him and wouldn't leave him alone. I didn't know this other girl at this point
I have been placed in a group with this girl for a project (some of our optional modules contain both second and third years) so I've had to spend time with her for the first time and she was complaining to me about how she has no friends. She also brought up my friend's boyfriend and how they had fallen out because she knows we're friends but described it as the other way round and that it was him who kept pursuing her and sent her flowers even though she had a boyfriend.
I didn't tell her that I had already heard the other side of the story from my friend and I don't know if she knows that my friend and her boyfriend were already together at the time that all this happened.
She also told me that last week he was sending her naked snapchats, which she didn't want because they were both in relationships
She brought this all up completely out of the blue because she knew I knew the people involved and I didn't tell her anything I knew about the situation. She also told me that she didn't really know my friend but she thought she seemed like a really nice person and she felt bad for her because of what her boyfriend was doing.
This girl is apparently very unpopular throughout the course and is difficult to be around because she tells lies. I have heard this mainly from my friend but also another girl who doesn't know my friend confirmed that she caused arguments and was making life difficult for people. I can't remember if she specifically confirmed that this girl is a liar though.
However, my friend also told me that a few months ago, her boyfriend had been texting a girl from back home saying he missed her and couldn't stop thinking about her, so the naked snapchats wouldn't necessarily be out of character.
Do I tell my friend about the naked snapchats? I don't want to cause a massive argument between her boyfriend and her - she's already very insecure about the relationship and she hates this girl for not leaving her boyfriend alone at the start (even though this girl doesn't know she hates her). It's also very likely it might not be true because she apparently tells lies. On the other hand, it MIGHT be true as he has done something similar in the past and I don't know for a fact that she's a liar, only what other people have said. Even if it's not true, does she deserve to know what's being said about her relationship?
TL;DR: a girl has told me that my friend's boyfriend sent her naked snap chats. She's got a reputation for being a bit of a liar although I don't know for sure that she is and my friend's boyfriend has previous of sending inappropriate texts to other girls. Do I tell my friend what she said or shall I not get involved?
When they first got together last year, there was a lot of drama with this other girl from the year below us who was interested in him and who kept texting him and wouldn't leave him alone. I didn't know this other girl at this point
I have been placed in a group with this girl for a project (some of our optional modules contain both second and third years) so I've had to spend time with her for the first time and she was complaining to me about how she has no friends. She also brought up my friend's boyfriend and how they had fallen out because she knows we're friends but described it as the other way round and that it was him who kept pursuing her and sent her flowers even though she had a boyfriend.
I didn't tell her that I had already heard the other side of the story from my friend and I don't know if she knows that my friend and her boyfriend were already together at the time that all this happened.
She also told me that last week he was sending her naked snapchats, which she didn't want because they were both in relationships
She brought this all up completely out of the blue because she knew I knew the people involved and I didn't tell her anything I knew about the situation. She also told me that she didn't really know my friend but she thought she seemed like a really nice person and she felt bad for her because of what her boyfriend was doing.
This girl is apparently very unpopular throughout the course and is difficult to be around because she tells lies. I have heard this mainly from my friend but also another girl who doesn't know my friend confirmed that she caused arguments and was making life difficult for people. I can't remember if she specifically confirmed that this girl is a liar though.
However, my friend also told me that a few months ago, her boyfriend had been texting a girl from back home saying he missed her and couldn't stop thinking about her, so the naked snapchats wouldn't necessarily be out of character.
Do I tell my friend about the naked snapchats? I don't want to cause a massive argument between her boyfriend and her - she's already very insecure about the relationship and she hates this girl for not leaving her boyfriend alone at the start (even though this girl doesn't know she hates her). It's also very likely it might not be true because she apparently tells lies. On the other hand, it MIGHT be true as he has done something similar in the past and I don't know for a fact that she's a liar, only what other people have said. Even if it's not true, does she deserve to know what's being said about her relationship?
TL;DR: a girl has told me that my friend's boyfriend sent her naked snap chats. She's got a reputation for being a bit of a liar although I don't know for sure that she is and my friend's boyfriend has previous of sending inappropriate texts to other girls. Do I tell my friend what she said or shall I not get involved?
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