How important is money to women in a relationship? I know this question has been asked a million times in different ways, but I'm always surprised at the answer. Usually, everyone chimes in and says in one form or another that money is not important as long as they can pay the bills. That sounds great, and should puts guys minds at ease; however, I don't tend to see these women in real life, just on forums.
Does that mean that I think women require a rich guy? No. It's not about being rich, but most women I know want to be really, really, really, comfortable. All that is fine, but would they turn down a good man if he didn't seem to be up to par with stuff? I don't know too many who like pinching pennies anymore.
Most would say money and stuff doesn't matter, but perhaps we all have an idea of what normal is and don't let our minds go below that when we picture that. Perhaps every normal guy is expected to at least have a couple of cars, 4 bedroom house, pool, camper, and things of that nature. How much below that would be ok?
Let's suppose you meet a guy and you are attracted to him. You think he is nice looking, he has a good job, he is a nice guy, and he has no debt. You then discover that his "stuff" looks like the pictures below. Would that make any difference? That doesn't mean it would always have to be that way, but would you be turned off by this at first? For those who are married, it will just take some imagination to answer.
I'm not saying there is anything wrong with these, but just a "nothing fancy" example.
Does that mean that I think women require a rich guy? No. It's not about being rich, but most women I know want to be really, really, really, comfortable. All that is fine, but would they turn down a good man if he didn't seem to be up to par with stuff? I don't know too many who like pinching pennies anymore.
Most would say money and stuff doesn't matter, but perhaps we all have an idea of what normal is and don't let our minds go below that when we picture that. Perhaps every normal guy is expected to at least have a couple of cars, 4 bedroom house, pool, camper, and things of that nature. How much below that would be ok?
Let's suppose you meet a guy and you are attracted to him. You think he is nice looking, he has a good job, he is a nice guy, and he has no debt. You then discover that his "stuff" looks like the pictures below. Would that make any difference? That doesn't mean it would always have to be that way, but would you be turned off by this at first? For those who are married, it will just take some imagination to answer.
I'm not saying there is anything wrong with these, but just a "nothing fancy" example.
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