| Hi, been lurking here for awhile and here's my first post... My boyfriend and I are in a long distance relationship. He's in the military and in AC school. And I'm currently an undergrad in college. We initially met online through a game we both play and things flourished to where he would come see me in school some weekends and even took me to spend time with his family on multiple occasions when he had leave. Then in December he had to go back east to start school. I went to see him in January and we had a really great time together. Up until the last week of February things were great. Before we met, we used to have sexy skype sessions. I brought up to him that I would like to start that again because it was fun and it was a way to have a sort of sexual intimacy between us. I sent flirty texts saying how much I enjoyed doing certain things to him; sent him some hot pics too. He said he enjoyed what I gave him, but whenever I would bring up skyping he would avoid the issue. A few days ago things exploded and I told him how frustrated this made me feel. Him not wanting to have sexy skype time anymore made me feel horrible and undesired. He explained that since he had finally met me and had a chance to spend time with me, that he didn't see the need for doing the virtual stuff anymore. And he didn't want to risk his roommate walking in on him. The virtual part I found hard to believe because he still manages to find the time to watch porn and not worry about his roommate coming in. Keep in mind, I have no problem with the fact that he watches porn. It just pissed me off because it feels like he chose porn over having me to get with. I apologize for the rant and it may seem all over the place, but this is really bothering me. It's weird to me that something that was once alluring lost its appeal because we finally got together. Since intimate skyping is out of the question, I'm looking for other ways to have some sort of intimacy together while we go through his being away. | |||
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Restore intimacy in long distance relationship?
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